Why marriages fail

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Before I begin, I'd want to state that, due to the nature of the matter, I am neither a marriage expert nor am I married; in fact, I am still quite young. I've just listed some of the most typical reasons why I believe marriages nowadays fail.

1. Getting in for the wrong reasons: Many individuals do this now, and some don't even realize why they're getting married. The majority of people marry for the sake of their looks, bodies, or money. Yeah, money is fantastic, but what will you do if you get married and one or two things happen and he/she loses everything, and if it's for the body, the body changes, so will you still want to stay with that when everything changes?, you both have to be on the same page.

2. Finances: This is one of the most crucial aspects of marriage. There are a lot of topics that should be discussed before getting married cause this money of a thing can change the circumstances and ruin a relationship.

- You must know what kind of lifestyle you want to live, whether your income can support it, how you will pay the bills when you have children, and whether you and your partner are saving. You must plan all of these things so that your marriage can thrive; money makes things better.

- You should also find out whether your partner is in debt so that you can work things out before getting married so that you don't end up struggling.

- How do you want your wedding to be? If you are wealthy, you can choose to have a lavish wedding, if not you should just do your wedding within your means.

3. Infidelity: This is a major deal breaker for relationships for most people; although some marriages do not end after this, but they do begin to struggle with trust issues; everything about that person begins to bother you; will your partner be able to deal with it mentally? Sometimes I think there should be a penalty for cheating because most people cheat and then act as if it's nothing. When you make a promise to someone, the very least you can do is honor it.

4. Inability to resolve conflicts:- There's no doubt that there won't be conflicts in a marriage, but you need to always communicate with your partner always let them know how you feel about a thing and try to be understanding, Some go for marriage counseling or therapy If works for you, you can always go for it, look for ways to settle those little issues don't let them add up if not it could break the marriage.

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There are a thousand reasons why marriages fail, I just selected a few, it doesn't mean everything will be smooth every time but you can deal with it carefully and involve God too in your marriage and you will be fine.

Thank you for reading.💚