Happy Sunday guys.😊
I have always wanted to write on this topic.
Insecurity meaning a lack of confidence in oneself or self doubt e.g big stomach, nose, eyes, shoulders, hip dips and the likes. I used to think guys don't have insecurities because I mostly hear girls complain about their bodies, guys also feel insecure about some certain things it doesn't necessarily have to be physical appearance.
Things I feel insecure about:-
1. My size:- I am very slim and small so for some certain reasons I did not like how I looked in clothes and all you know the society believes a girl should look a certain way or have a certain body type and all. So, I started trying to put on little weight and for me it wasn't working no matter how I tried, I even tried working out(laziness did not allow me to keep up😅), it was really affecting me at a point but I kept on trying to get my mind of it sha.
2. Broad Shoulders:- About this one I wasn't insecure about it in secondary school in fact I didn't really pay attention to it, until I got to university and realized I have broad shoulders (mostly guys that tend to have this) so I just kept thinking about it, it affected my dressing and all.
3. Hairline:- my hairline is also shaped like a guys own or I would say I have baby hairs so I can't really do some styles because of it.
All these insecurities affected my dressing and all I was not confident about wearing some particular clothes or doing some particular styles that will show until I realized that I don't get to control this things and what I am complaining about some people are praying for them.
I always watch any Korean, Chinese or Asian fashion sha because they are slim and all it really encourages me because there are people like me there and to them there been slim is a big deal there and to be a model some of the qualities I am not confident about thats what they are looking for in a model.
I will just say don't be worried about things you have no control over ,God made you this way for a reason just love yourself, love the way you are and enjoy it while it lasts.
Have a great week.😊
That's the funny thing about life. What most people count as a bad thing is appreciated somewhere else. Some ladies wish to be slim and tall while some pray for the opposite. We just need to love ourselves the way we are and someday we will find someone that appreciates these qualities of ours.