Hey😊, today has been pretty chill, asides eating and washing my clothes I have been on my bed since watching movies, its only Saturdays I get to rest.
Okay lets go into the topic
Failure is something no one wishes for and some of us might have come across it one way or another in our life's and we all have different ways of handling it. Failure is not only when you fail a test or an exam, it could be failing to perform your duty or working towards something and not getting it (like failing to be a friend, father, mother and the likes.)
I heard of a guy who has always been a straight A's student and you know he was also good at other things so he has never for once failed in his life until one day he failed a subject or so and he didn't know how to handle it, he couldn't believe he even failed it seemed strange to him, he was completely broken and all (yeah I might not get every detail of the story). It might have taken him time to get used to it but I am sure he only learnt from it and got back up.
Yeah there has been various times I have failed, I have been applying to a particular agency and I don't get picked and what makes it worse is you don't even know what you are doing wrong because there's no feedback, yeah it hurts more when you put a lot of efforts into it, you get broken even cry sometimes.
Failing is not the end of the world it just pushes you to do better, you know I failed this time the next time I know what not to do, do not be discouraged I just feel its something we go through just to make us stronger.
What I do sometimes when I fail
-Acknowledge that I failed in a certain way and work on ways not to make that same mistake.
- Encourage myself and challenge myself to come out stronger than I did before.
FAILURE IS NOT BEEN DEFEATED ITS JUST A CHALLENGE TO DO BETTER.
I don't think anyone is a failure, just like Thomas Edison "I didn’t fail 1,000 times. The light bulb was an invention with 1,000 steps".
Conclusion
So Yes, Failure is inevitable in our life, We should rise up and shouldn't be afraid to fail.
We can learn a lot from our Failures than our Successes.
I really love the way you treated, so many people see failure as something one shouldn't encounter at all but we all must fail to learn and we shouldn't take failure for discouragement instead we should strive more.