Happy new month, everyone! December is finally here😁.
It's been an amazing journey here on this platform, though it's been a while since I've written an article due to personal reasons and school resumption preparations.
Although some of my friends have resumed, I do not intend to resume this week because I need to get enough rest. I'm not lazy, but I do need to rest because I know I have lost some weight which I'm managing and I need to get it back 😅😅
Before I continue, I'd like to congratulate myself because I've been on this platform for a month and have passed the 100 view mark. I currently have over 175 views, which is a small number but with time will surpass 500 views, because nothing happens overnight.
So, back to the topic. boosting child self esteem let me state this; parenting is never easy and can be extremely frustrating at times due to a variety of issues. That is why it is critical to have a supportive partner so that you are not the only one trying to solve a problem that would have been simple if you had a supportive partner.
Parents should be cautious on how they speak to their children and how they punish them; I'm not saying that punishment is bad; however, after you've punished them, you must go over to them and correct them, telling them what they did wrong and showing them love so that they understand why you're correcting them.
It's why most children lack self-confidence, and this is due to the way they were treated at home, rather than simply beating and punishing them, we should let them have an understanding of what they did wrong.
Most times it what children are brought up with that sticks to them when they grow up. Just like therapy you get to realize that most times the problem is from childhood what they hear or see that is affecting them and kids needs to be watched at their early stage because that stage is very delicate.
I'd love to compile a list of things we can tell our children to boost their self-esteem, and these brief conversations can go a long way toward assisting them. though I don't have any child for now and I'm not into any relationship but through my experiences with children I was able to discover it
1. I'm really proud to call you my child : this might look like a simple word but you telling them this every time would make them confirm that they have someone at home that really care for them when they have issues some where else.
2. you make me smile
3. you would make a good leader
4. you will always be my hero
5.you are born to be great and you were never a mistake
thanks for reading ❤
Have a lovely month😊
