Our tongue is the mirror of our heart
The hopeful outlook, mental and physical health of the individuals of a nation begins with harmonious communication. This structure also accelerates social development and adds strength.
Human relationships begin by filtering thoughts and feelings through the love of positive energy in the eyes or the lovelessness of negative energy in the eyes. Then it's time to use our language. The secret is hidden in the well-known and used saying "A sweet tongue gets the snake out of its hole". The power of the language, the energy of the words make the enemy a friend, the patient good, and the unhappy happy. Ask Confucius, "If you were called to rule a country, what would you do first?" they asked. “No doubt I would start by reviewing language,” he said.
Language exists for speech, agreement, thought, and culture. If the language is flawed, all of these things I have mentioned will be flawed. According to its place, the tongue is mightier than the sword. When used maliciously, it destroys the psychology of the other person. With good intentions, it is one to add richness to the soul, joy and peace. In fact, everyone wants to be praised and admired by others. Being liked by others increases self-confidence and self-confidence.
Praise is the most important source of motivation and encouragement. It is a culture, manners and education to value a person, to take care of him, to make him feel valuable. And this education can only be obtained by oneself, there is no school. The way is through being human.
Just as generous people who love to give are appreciated, loved and respected by everyone. Here, the human model, which our society lacks, is the phenomenon of a generous person with both hand and tongue. "Hello my friend. How are you? The person we greet with the words "I saw you, it means I'm going to have a good day" is the person we love and establish good relations with.
There are two main ways of communication between people. The path of harmony that enriches our life, or the path of harmony that impoverishes our life. We have to build our relationships, personally or with society, on the path we choose.
Behaving in a balanced way, controlling his thoughts and feelings, using his language in the way of praise-love-harmony, empathizing, being friendly without judging people, looking into the eyes of others with love, expressing the praiseworthy feature of every person, knowing how to take heart, using the words me-me-mine-mine People who can remove "you" from their vocabulary and use "you" frequently, raise the moral and social power and happiness level of the society. These are the building blocks of society.
These findings of mine are an invitation to the "path of harmony". It is a call. To the extent that we can respond to the expectations of the person in front of us, we adapt to the extent that we can look at the features that are contrary to us with tolerance, love and understanding.
I wish that a society that minimizes friction in personal relationships, can solve problems without turning into a fight, prefer happiness instead of pain, love and tolerance instead of grudge and hatred, will be re-established without wasting more days.
