Time to refresh: what's yours and what's not?

Are the things you love really your loved ones? Or do you love them because someone else loves them? Perhaps you have been taught to love them.

What about the ones you don't like? For example, have you ever tried that thing you don't like? Have you surrendered to your prejudices or have you made a judgment based on your experience? Maybe you don't like it because others don't like it and you want to be in the same group as them. Do your tastes belong to you or to others?

What about your values, do they belong to you? “What are your values?” If they ask, can you make a list that you feel comfortable with? You know, have you ever thought about them?

So do you have limits? Or do you just act within the boundaries that others have drawn for you?

What does comfortable mean to you? How are you comfortable? For example, which loads bother you, or which people? Can you remove those who disturb you from your life? On the contrary, maybe you are too self-indulgent? Could it be that you are missing out on many opportunities so you don't feel comfortable?

In fact, there are countless such questions one should ask oneself. And asking these questions has to start somewhere. If we take time to get to know ourselves better this spring, determine our own space, clean it, "What should we stay, what should we throw away?" It would be nice if we thought about it… For example, if we realized our own pleasures, the things we were excited about, the things we were tired of, and the things we didn't want anymore.

While walking on a road in the flow of life, sometimes we need to take a break and listen to ourselves instead of continuing without questioning our preferences, why we are walking on that road, whether the road belongs to us or not. Spring is the time to refresh, and we can use this time to refresh ourselves.