Chores are not gender based

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3 years ago

Generally a greater number of men treat the females as second class citizens, they females have always been neglected or maltreated.. 


Some men see women as nothing, some believe that women are supposed to be under them, yes women are supposed to respect the men but they shouldn't be forced to it or mandated to do so... 


I have noticed that women are sometimes mandated or expected to do some specific works or chores, most times I hear people say words like, it is the duty of a lady to cook or to do the laundries or to clean the house or to even wash the dishes... Growing up, I hate to wash the dishes even till now, I rather do other hard or more stressful chores than to wash the dishes but I don't see it as the duty of the females and no one should... 


I believe that all this chores are not gender based, it is a basic life skills which everyone must know how to do, is not nice to say that cooking is for the ladies or cleaning is for the ladies, we all are the same, no one is above the other, the earlier we realize this and start treating women with respect the better for us.  


Chores are not gender based, no one is created specifically to hand some identified chores, as a man, you can decide to do all the laundries, or do all the cooking or wash all the dishes, that wouldn't make you less of a man rather it makes you stronger and better off without a helper, some men can't even do their laundries, many can't even cook a proper meal other than noodles maybe because they grew up believe that it is not their duty as a man but now they wish they could do all those chores on their own... 


It doesn't matter if you are seen washing the dishes or cleaning the house, learn how to do all this basic chores by yourself and stop referring some of them as the duties of the female gender..  Thanks

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Wow. Thank you for recognizing us women that we are not only for house chores and stuff. You're right. No one is above the other.

I also believe that this mindset of society is passed from culture to culture that's why there is a stereotype of us women doing the dishes and laundry. 🤦‍♀️

This has to stop. Everyone is equal. One can decide to do the house chores regardless of gender.

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3 years ago

Yes, you have said it all, it's societal stereotype that do make men feel like it's a bad thing doing chores

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3 years ago

Societal event really have effects I must say though .

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3 years ago

Yes, societal stereotype has really come to shapen people's views about many things on gender including chores too. We can enlighten ourselves through medium like this to discourage such act. Thanks for your response

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3 years ago

Yes and the network to activate in such away to meet people.

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3 years ago

Yes, we can use social media like this to educate and enlighten ourselves more. Thanks

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