Never confide
In general, peoples trust each other easily. May be they met only for few hours or may be for a few months or few years. But some friendships lead one to express their personal issues to a stranger even before he/she gets to know him thoroughly.
When do peoples take the risk to confide something very serious to another
When ever one is over excited or at deep grief, people usually tend to share it with someone. But how far you can confide is a question to think about. When you decide to confide something very serious and confidential, make sure you are confiding to the right person.
Some peoples who are too close to us , the one being with us all the time, the one who helps us occasionally when need arises, the one who listens to our issues may not be the one who can give a solution when problems arise. They might be the one who turns their back at you, when you really need a serious help.
People who talk less and shows less interest in others and the one who never interferes in others job, are probably worth enough to be trusted. Though you confide something important to them may be you will not get a solution but for sure you will get an assistance.
Some of us can never handle serious issues. We keep depending on others especially when something unfateful happens. So we instantly take the support from soneone even if we are not sure of getting a eesponse.
To keep themselves at peace or to share their long lasting happiness, some people confide. But may be it will result in good or may be something tough is awaiting them.
Few things when disclosed among the family circles or friends can create a bad impact on the whole. In such cases its better to remain calm and wait for an opportunity to expose.
When things go wrong, too mamy voices will rise against you. Even if you have done good, the good will be suppressed and only the bad will be reminded.
Every individual has a story to confide but let that be told to the right person at the right time. Not sooner or later. We might feel at peace when things are exposed. But if it goes to the wrong person, just imagjne the situation.
