Let go hatred...as time never leaves any stone unturned

Hatred ignites fury in you. So never keep hatred. Who knows the person whom you hated once will be a saviour of timely help. Remove hatred and let it go....

In most cases people cannot accept failures. For some people every small things matter while for some, it is the least matter that affects them. Here the latter is more bold comparatively.

One fine morning you wake up with a lot of stuff to complete. And when the day goes on joyously something worst happens to ignite your hatred. This actually reminds me of some good old memories that happened long years ago. The place where we lived years ago was so congested. More than 2000 government quarters which were closely built. The result of which the houses were just a furlong distance. So any happenings in any house can be heard aloud. As you know, the neighbours are more interested in others affair rather than their own.

The story goes like this. Two families were so close to each other. The children were of the same age then. They were often secluded in one place so that they play and share a wonderful time together. One of the parent would take the responsibility of dropping the children ( of both houses ) to school while other would collect them back from school. When one family was sick the other would take care of them by providing food, water, medicine and overall care of the children. This was the routine followed. Even the other neighbors would envy them.

All of a sudden the unexpected happened. They stopped talking to eachother. For no reason, the children were stopped from meeting each other. The reason for this sudden change was quite unknown by one of the neighbour. The indifference could not be accepted by the neighbour. So they quit the home searching for a new one.

Years passed by. The children are in highschool and much aware of the fact, as to what is correct and what not. Though they don't speak to each other, they do not forget to exchange a smile. Afterall they are innocent children. There was a time when they used to share food in the same plate. But now looking into eachother's face was a difficult task. Finally, one day something serious happened to the son in one of the household. The doctor diagnosed him with kidney failure, which means immediate replacement should be done, failing which, it might risk the child's life.

The donor was his own father. In the early days, the families were so close knit that being together was the prime priority they gave to each other. After years, after the sons ailment came into limelight, both families once again started to interact eachother.

There were nights when the child had a panic attack and the parents had to go through nervous breakdown. During these times it was the neighbor who used to act wisely by taking him to the hospital along with other neighbors. This act of kindness helped the child from causing any further ailments. Days rolled by and they became thick friends again.

Years rolled by and the boy now 21, was getting ready for the next transplantation. The earlier transplanted kidney was responding less which means immediate replacement is required. And this time the.mother was the donor . The operation was successful but this happiness lasted only for two months. The transplanted kidney stopped respondingl. If I had to tell about the boy, he was smart, handsome, capable and studious in studies and Art. He was infact a pet to the Doctors.

Finally after two months of pain and struggle, he bid good bye to the world. This is not a story of fiction. This happened 25 years before. One of the family involved was my own. I and he was almost of the same age. I still remember clearly, when the boy was in immediate need of blood, it was my father who ran to the blood bank but when he saw the long que he fainted. On seeing the pitiful condition of my father the hospital authorities made immediate arrangement for the required amount of blood.

Even today I do not know the reason, why we were apart for many years. May be for any small reason. But today, even after years, our parents and his parents living miles and miles away, never forget to make a call once a month. Such is their friendship.

A spark is enough to create a hatred. But as days goes by it slowly ignites, turning hatred to fury. Here matter of time plays a very crucial role in beeaking or making a relationship.

Please remember

• If you do not know the reason of hatred, do not hesitate to find out the reason from the concerned person.

• Hatred is a silent killer. It makes you weak and unenergetic. So never hate.

• Listen to your own innerself than taking advice from others.

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