Its Ok to be a little adamant....

Yes, it's really "OK" to be a little envious, a little selfish, a little adamant, a little stubbornness...for a good cause......Iam sure all of us should have atleast one quality of this . Such qualities, in one way, will make you more confident to face this world, which are full of challenges.

Not ready to accept defeat easily is another benefit of this quality. When you have a little bit of stubbornness, adamant, envious....you will not let things go easily out of your hand. Striving hard is another fact of this quality. Some people after lot of efforts attains nothing at the end of the day, with not even a word of appreciation. That should never be a source of discouragement instead wait patiently for the ball to come to your court.

Nothing is purposeful. It just happens. If you don't have any of this quality which means you're acting to be too good. Obviously, such loyalty will lead you to go astray.

To provoke is another bad quality when done intentionally. In such cases, its definitely not ok to be adamant , stubborn or to carry your ego. Because anything you do out of your anger will turn out to be a total failure which in turn can provoke negative thoughts in you. Instead, think the other way - to work out with patience and win.

Having litlle bit of this quality doesn't mean you are bad, you are just trying to be a little more better than the other or you just need to shine a bit more than your opponent.

All these qualities exists in us only until a certain age. An age where you can't withstand your ego. When you know you have achieved what you need to, all these starts deteriorating.

Trust me life is beautiful which means in life we have to experience all these. After ages, when we look back we might get to think, for this silly reason I had to lose my friend or my job as such. Sometimes its funny and sometimes painful.

When you have a little bit of this quality, it's quiet ok. But if this happens to be the highlight of your nature, you are ruining your own character in public.

Earning a respectful position, name and fame is not an easy task. For this purpose many unruly behaviout you can expect from your opponent. Some are acceptable while some cannot be, to any extent. There are honest people who follow the genuine policy of give and take.

Its easy to get along with people of this character rather than with people carrying a face mask. When you get what you are intended to, you can see the true behavioral changes from someone you never expected. All these being part of life.

When you look from children point of view, they go out of their mind for things they don't get while the same is being carried by their friends. Children from very young age should be taught the difference between good and bad. They should be aware of the fact that somethings are beyond their reach and cannot be gained by their adamant behavior.

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Thanks for your time.