The first word that comes to mind when it comes to a relationship That is the attitude of two people towards each other in any relationship
I am not saying that everyone will think the same as me
Or everyone will agree with me but they will definitely say that
But I must say that my thinking will be different from all other people but it is not wrong. So, as I've said before, the first word that comes to mind when it comes to relationships What comes is the attitude of two people towards each other Then the relationship, no matter who it is, whether it is new or years old What it depends on the behavior of the two people involved
What is the attitude of these two towards each other?
Good behavior makes others your own❤️
Yes, the good behavior of any human being is any It can affect a person, even if they have no special relationship Can keep good feelings in his heart for this person
For example, a person with his neighbor His attitude, his morals are very pleasant, he is very good He talks to his understands his needs and cares about his rights, then of course with him He has no blood relationship but even then that person will feel his pain Instead of being jealous of him, he will be happy with his happiness
All this is possible only because of the good behavior of that person On the contrary, if we talk about bad behavior, then bad behavior...
Yes, the good behavior of any human being is any It can affect a person, even if they have no special relationship Can keep good feelings in his heart for this person
Bad behavior also nullifies a blood relationship🥺
For example, a person with his neighbor His attitude, his morals are very pleasant, he is very good He talks to his understands his needs and cares about his rights, then of course with him He has no blood relationship but even then that person will feel his pain Instead of being jealous of him, he will be happy with his happiness
All this is possible only because of the good behavior of that person On the contrary, if we talk about bad behavior, then bad behavior...
Attitude and morality are closely related✌️
There is a deep connection between human behavior and morals
If a person has good morals, then surely his attitude too nice to other people. He will talk nicely to people He will speak to people in a soft tone and people will also be able to understand the matter well His demeanor will also be liked because of his behavior And if a person's morals are not good, then his attitude how to be good with people And when a person's attitude towards someone is not good, someone will listen to him
How will he be able to understand after that and on the contrary he will say bad things against him That such and such a person is very immoral and his bad behavior is always Will remember
In fact, it is human nature to always remember people's attitudes Then whether it is good or bad For example, if you talk to someone in your family Or ask some questions to get some information And this person's attitude towards you is very bad So many years pass and that person may not meet you for many years but You will always remember his tone, his attitude and the bitterness of his attitudeAnd when you remember, you may feel the intensity of the pain even at that moment And his bad behavior has imprinted on your heart Conversely, if the person expresses love to you or Expresses empathy and understands your point very carefully That is, it gives importance to your words and to you So even after many years, you still know his good manners and his attitude Her attitude and loving tone will always be remembered and when you remember her Respect and love for it will continue to grow in your heart So you consider him a good man because of his good behavior you will give him respect and love
Therefore, man should change his behavior and his morals Keep trying to make it better
So that he can maintain his blood relations as well as his other relations And maintain all new and old relationships with people And never let this relationship get away from him
Because the speaker has said that it is very easy to make a connection But it is very difficult to maintain this relationship
Making a connection is like writing clay from clay to clay
And maintaining that relationship is as difficult as writing water with water on water
Everyone who reads this article of mine is requested Never lose your precious relationships because of your attitudes
Improve your attitudes and always maintain your precious relationships
To save these relationships, bow down even if you have to
But never let your relationship break up
Blessed is the saying of my beloved Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him)If you have to bow down to save your relationship, bow down and don't feel ashamed And if bowing down diminishes your honor, then take away my honor on the Day of Resurrection (SubhanAllah)
Yes, attitude is the most important for everyone. which can give you a place in someones' heart or Or take off from someone's heart. 👍