Bad Company Corrupts Good Character

MAY 20, 2022. Friday

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COMMUNITIES

We all know that humans live in form of society, they cannot live in isolation from other humans. Being a part of society is a must, to live a good, happy and healthy life. And in this society, we have a list of people which includes.

• Family members.

• Relatives.

• Friends.

• Neighbors.

• Class fellows.

• Colleagues in working place of Co-workers.

In the list above, some people group up are we can choose, select, replace change, and some of them are built-in in our life, we can't change, replace or choose them. They are God-gifted. We must live with them either with our will or without willing to be with them.

How?, Being Close To The Wrong People Ruins Us.

We are living in a society, we are interacting with different people. When we are interacting with them. We are exchanging energies with each other. These energies could be positive, or negative. If the energies we are exchanging are positive they will increase productivity and good morals with good behavior.

But if we are interacting with bad people they will ruin our life.

For Example

Our interaction is with drug-addicted people drug-addict people drug of friends who take different kin of hazardous drugs+ alcohol, they will offer us this alcohol or other drugs, and they will emotionally blackmail us and will persuade us in many ways to be their companion. If we will refuse them, they will get angry and if we will accept the offer our life will get destroyed like theirs

How do we know whether these energies are positive or negative?

We can determine their kind, with the nature of the people we are interacting with. If the people in our company are good setting positive energies from them.

The energy we are spending time with bad people we are ruining our life in their company. They are already ruined in their lives, and we are also taking this bad luck from them, by applying their thoughts ourselves.

Sometimes we don't know the reality of people, who are looking good to us, but in reality, they are a kind of danger to our life, our future, and everything to us.

Then what to do? How do deal with this kind of people? How to Remove Wrong People from our line.

In the enforcement of that, we have two groups of people

For 1: We don’t have the authority to get rid of them if any of them is wrong, or bad for you. And this group includes (Your Family)

Or 2 groups: group the second group includes ( relatives, neighbors, classmates, and colleagues).

"Exclude Loosers from your life, don't listen to them."

Group #1- Family.

Family is everything to us, we can't remove or eliminate any of our family members from our lives. But, what to do?

If a family member is transferring negative energies in your mind. The only thing we can do here is to talk to each other. We need to find the solution to the problems, we are facing in our home.

Discussing things, and arguing positively should be applied to sort out every matter in our family.

Group #2- (Other Than Family)

All the people's groups, other than family are on a list, that can be changed, replaced, removed, or eliminated. So, if you are living with toxic people, that are harmful to your mind, personality, and for your future. You can apply any of the changes. As mentioned in the list above.

Classmates: If you are fed up with your class fellows, first try to make good relationships with them. But if they don't want to change your place of sitting in the classroom.

If changing places doesn't work. Ask the teacher about them, if management is not doing anything good. Change your school. And get rid of your bad companions completely.

• Relatives:

As I mentioned at the start of my article that "Human is a Social Animal" it is true, we can't live alone, without other humans. It is necessary to live in the form of society. And our relatives are included in this circle.

Now we have two things here, one is (it is best to have a good kind of relatives). But what if these relatives are toxic? What is happening usually in Pakistan is, that most of the families are toxic to each other.

Whatever, first of all, settle the conflicts presented between two relatives. Otherwise, break the relationship, why? because it's beneficial for both of you.

• Neighbors:

If your neighbors are good to you, you are the luckiest family in the world. Because neighbors are who will reach you in your hard times very fast, more than anyone else.

For example

If anything bad happens in your home, relatives can't reach you in just two minutes, your friends can't reach you, your colleagues, or your far-off relationships cannot. But, your neighbors can do this. They can help you in any tragedy. But if your neighbors aren't good, you will be the one who is in so much trouble. They can be bad for your money, your respect, your honor, and many more, in simple they can be beneficial and harmful in an equal quantity and quality.

What can be done in the case, when your neighbors aren't good?. First: make them leave the colony in which you are all living. Otherwise, you will have to migrate to the right place, you should be.

• Friends:

This is most important from all of the above points.

These are the friends who can make you able to touch the sky with your success. And they are also the ones who can hurry you up under the ground. Company affects a lot on humans personality.

You exchange every time energies with your friends and companions, which could be positive or negative energies. It depends upon the nature of your friends.

What kind of nature do they have?

1. Either good or Bad

2. Positive

3. Negative

4. Motivational

5. Coward

And the main thing is, you are the only one, who has the right to select his friends. Always try to keep the right people around you.

Eliminate the wrong ones. It is good for you to be alone than wrong and toxic friends.

Writer's Message

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Be with positive-minded people, argue with them, and exchange positive energies.

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