Some reasons for late marriage in society _! *
* Let's find out *
The trend of society about fifteen years ago today. According to this, if a girl was married before the age of twenty-five, such a marriage would be considered timely. Crossing the age of 25 would mean that the girl's relationship is late.
It is unknown at this time what he will do after leaving the post.
Then, seven or eight years ago, the situation was such that the marriage of the first girl before the age of thirty was declared timely. That is, there was a difference of five years in just seven or eight years.
There are still cases where girls in their homes are between the ages of 30 and 40 but there is no relationship.
The trend of delay in this relationship is creating silent cracks in our society which are a prelude to the collapse of the social structure. But it is a pity that not even a few people in the society have a practical understanding of it.
Come on! Let's try to determine the reasons for this delay.
The first reason:
Boys have to lag behind in education and girls have to excel in this field.
The results of the board examinations of the last several years are a testament to this, because of which it has become very difficult to get a level playing field in terms of education.
* The growing trend of PhDs among girls in cities over the years has made it even more difficult.
♢ Second reason:
With a good education, girls find employment relatively easily.
It has two effects;
♧ One: Parents begin to become financially dependent on these girls.
* Two: In terms of jobs, we do not get the same relationship.
The third reason:
Some parents do not want to be involved in this matter at all. Girls reach the age of 28 years but they are considered to be young.
♧ There was a time when mothers at the age of eighteen and twenty used to wander in search of relationships.
♢ The fourth reason:
Relationships are difficult for a girl over the age of 30 because most boys are looking for a younger girl.
Fifth reason:
The boys are very flirtatious.
First of all, no girl, boy's mother doesn't like sister, just enjoying food and drink is probably the goal.
If a girl is liked, then the girl child is completely exploited in the name of orders and customs.
We have a friend whose family saw their relationship in 82 places, then said yes in one place.
After a while, the relationship broke down and his friend refused to watch the show.
Sixth reason:
A strange reason has emerged in the cities.
The girl's parents want to see in the boy all the achievements that are achieved at the age of fifty.
Have a house of your own, have a car, have a minimum wage, and so on.
I was trying to get a relationship with one of my engineer friends. Boy worthy, good looking, good job
The girl's mother liked her very much, the boys also agreed but suddenly the girl's parents refused and the reason was given that the boy does not have his own house, he lives in a rented house.
Now what to do with such attitudes? Isn't that like hitting your foot with an ax?
Seventh reason:
There is a strange reason for families. Every mother agrees to make her daughter happy in the family, but when it comes to her son, all the girls in the family are frowned upon and the girl is brought out of the family with great pomp and pride.
There will be more reasons.
Whatever the reasons, remember that this is disrupting our social system and our young generation is easily falling prey to the obscenity spread by the media due to untimely marriage. And the one who is safe is the victim of a silent psychological war.
The West has ruined itself in this way and their population is now in reverse gear, but we are deliberately falling into this pit and they are laughing and smiling.
We are all responsible for this collective breakdown and decline. But a hundred regrets! The boat is sinking and the sailors and passengers are helpless.
I think your reason is good realty. Some people not machore in field. Parents not enough money. So wast of time. I think the main reason late Merrige.