Most times, we are affected by our lack of a decision making process and such a poor habit hampers more on our growth success wise despite the far too many opportunities we are ever presented with at the global stage driven by the urgency to Stay competitive if we are to survive in this deadly survival of the fittest situations that are hiterto found within the confinement of where we find ourselves. Let's ride on!

Sadly, i've come across too many persons without a real cause of existence here on earth as much as those without a real cause for what they want to either do or become in life, hence you often hear them say to you when asked, "i am very much undecided at the moment or still others would say to you in the most simplistic form, "i don't know, neither do i want to share such with you". Despite all the negation of response and a little form of misdirection or being misguided, it is still a known fact that our abilities to either determine or actualize whom we are soley rests on our decision making process which beyond all reasonable doubt should be enriched with the most combinations of ingredients which only the positive mindsets can give, crave for as much as can have when summed up. Take it or leave it, your decision today affects your wellbeing tomorrow this is factual.

My unfarfetched reasons for Making the best of decisions for yourself

The above picture shows a congregation of friends who came together to celebrate their children's successful paasout in their basketball academy in las Palmas Spain and at the last end by your right hand side is a friend of mine named Oluchi who is happily celebrating with her other young pals after their successful graduation from a baketballing team in Spain and the reality of purpose here is that she (Oluchi) chose this career herslf after she told her dad of her decision to become a basketballer which was granted her and till now, I can guarantee you that she's more than happy with her chosen career as much is her dad who is of course seated next to her in the order of arrangement.

Additionally, I can't really place the number of times she has talked about how such a decision she took while she was still a baby has been keeping her happy and going to the extent that she has now been able to actualize whom she really is. Stay positive and make decision for yourself!

Yes! Can you see the point I have been trying to make all this while about staying positive and Making a decision? Can you see Oluchi in the picture as the second person standing from the left hand side of the order of arrangement? Yes, it has been dreams fulfilled at last and what was it you taught helped her reached her goal- THE POWER OF HER DECISION MAKING PROCESS ISN'T IT?

Therefore, irrespective of our stages, age and predicaments in life, it should always be taken to the mind that our decision making process comes first as it exerts us with much power and that strong will to want to do which is of course transcended into success both now and in the nearest future to come but we all need something very important if we must meet our target- patience! Yes, patience is a virtue we must imbibe in order to establish more on our decision for a better positive result yielding.

Can you see that happy face again? Hmmmn!...I really do cherish it a lot cos her happiness could be described as knowing no bounds as a result of meeting up with her decision and working hard towards it.

Hahahahahahahaha! Being happy even on a nose mask goes beyond revealing to what extent her joy can no more be left unchallenged.

My advice and humble suggestion for the day is to always remeber that you are the first person to yourself before others and as such, you are very important. Learn to Take a decision today and see it actualized by tomorrow for there's more left in between the cow's head than there is when you don't give yourself that sense of believe.

#make a decision#stand on it and be positive towards it#Take responsibility good morning!

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