Do you show a waiting attitude for your time to come?😞

Imagine you are poised to crossing a very busy trunk A four lane express road with no one in the form either a traffic warder or a traffic light to rely on to help stop the vehichles in order to allow you an easy crossing, what will you do?

Will you just rely on the experience you've gathered overtime and then by showing a little piece of a waiting attitude until the road is free and quite safe to cross over to the other side or would you rather hurridely take a decision that might well be a sorry one for you such that it will lead to an accident with a resultant effect of death or serious injury incurred or perhaps lead to a permanent disorder?

I know at this point, most persons would surely get it all wrong given the fact that their decisions are rather to quick and rash which often at times, plunges them into all kinds of mistakes and and irrevocable last chance of a survival.

My discuss today is not basically on what happens on the road out there as my intoductory aspect of this article which is rather illustrative than real is revealing to us but it is based on what happens in our real life situations given the travails of life and how best we could handle or should have handled them.

The truth of it all is that we are ever engaged by the day in some meaningful thing or the other and the fact that most of the time, what we engage ourselves in even though we manage to still make a little living out of it, are still very very small to giving us the real life we had wished for ourselves, do we just become indignant at the whole system that chooses to habour us and then head for a dump and be ever ready to jump the ship?

It is not uncommon to see such attitude here especially of most persons who felt what they are earning here in @Read.Cash is not enough to be compared to their time and troubles inputted here and as such are more than very quick to take such rash decision of a dumb and then ask out. This write up is not just coming out of nothing but from the fact that i had met with some users here who told me that they are done with the entire project and what it is all about and when i asked them why, the replies I got are rather too shocking that encouraging.

Most persons have argued that why would some persons here on this platform get more up votes on their posts than the rest given a randomly rewarded equation of algorithm as is the case but the underlying truth here which they have forgotten overtime is the fact that honour they say is due to those that deserve it or are due to have it and what this means is that, there is just no way you can compare a person's input towards the growth of a platform for the last one to two years (1-2years) with those of another's input for the last one to four months(1-4months), would they ever be the same? Who of the two categories would you say had being with the platform througg thin and flesh and through the days of struggling to becoming a real valuable social site especially when the site itself is barely young, let's say about two years and a half old?

The above were my words of advice as against those with the initial questions of favouritisms of an up vote here that they feel seems to encourage only the older users than themselves but i guess applying the full benefits of a waiting attitude would rather help do the job and restore lost hope which will eliminate all manners of suspicion and restore it with the strong desire to stay and fight for a win as it is the right everyone has here.

Whether we like it or not, experience would forever be the best teacher and as such, should be given the first place of a position in our mordern day society rather than succumbing to the pressures of mediocrity of an empty accusations that would never gather a mole.

Do you aligne with me in all these or do you perhaps belong to the others opnion that says the upvotes here are done on favouritisms? Pls be open as i welcome all manners of a constructive criticisms.

Good evening and do enjoy the rest of your night.