What you cannot change now will change you.  The best way to help one another is to  care for one another, love another, be willing to help one another.
       We have seen many case that, if not because of you friend, pleasing for you...,  I will only forgive you because of him. Likewise, God can be moved to help our friend if we care for them with the whole of our heart.
        If we don't change them positively today, they will change the world in vice versa.