My own way of understanding one's worth. It's not that perfect but atleast I know how, what, when and why is it important to know your worth. Because of my experiences, I was able to come up with these ways on how to know my worth.
Some of the tips I want to share.
Self-respect
Respect starts from within. You should respect yourself for others to respect you also. If you don't know how to respect yourself, don't expect someone to respect you.
Abilities
Recognize your own abilities. Once you know your ability, you can enhance and develop it for your own benefit. It's easier to accomplish things if you know your capabilities. Don not underestimate your ability because once you find it and enhance it, it will last forever. Nobody can steal it from you.
Strenghts and Weaknesses
You're the one who knows your strengths and weaknesses. It's just a matter of finding it and weighing it. You use your strength as advantage especially when you apply for a job. If you have weaknesses, try to overcome it until it will become your strength as well. Don't be discouraged.
Priorities
Everybody has its own priorities. But we should prioritize the things that benefits us more. It's not being selfish or self-centered but knowing how to prioritize things. What comes first, second and so on. When you know your priorities, you will not find it hard to do what comes first. Once you know it, it's easier to accomplish.
Love
You can't feel the love if you yourself don't know how to love. You should love yourself first before loving others. Loving yourself helps in finding who you truly are. You find yourself being able to commit on what you do even if others tend to discourage you.
Realization comes at the end of every situation you encountered. Sometimes it makes you realize that it's a bad choice, sometimes it's a good choice. But because of that realization, you tend to change what is bad and never repeat the mistakes you've done. And with that, you will be able to know your worth. By knowing those things alone can make you love yourself even more. You will begin to realize and come to a conclusion that you're worth it.
You're more than capable of doing things that will make you happy. Nobody can make you happy and make you realize how your life is worth living for. It comes within you. It's just a matter of looking back and knowing how to do it. I know that you know your own worth. Let's find ourselves.
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