Forgetting past is impossible

October 22, Saturday, 2022

In choosing a partner one should choose someone who has no memories of the past that will repeatedly hold him back from moving forward. You should not partner with someone who makes plans for you in the future but ends up losing you. Small memories can be erased very easily, but when some memories are deeply embedded, those memories can never be erased. It is natural that those deep memories will be painful for the rest of your life. However, even if the scars of deep memories begin to be erased with time, it is not possible to forget them until the last breath of life. And if the memories remain with the loved one, and if he becomes an ex, then later it becomes such that it is not possible to love anyone again. The main reason is that the memories that happened with the loved ones are remembered for the whole life, they give pain for the whole life.

Over the past week I met a girl. Her conversation was going on with me on WhatsApp, a popular messenger. In 7 days I shared almost everything of my life with her, even she himself shared everything with me. While sharing all the life experiences she told me about her past boyfriend. But that boyfriend is now her ex.

It's been four months since they broke up due to some serious reason. Then the girl started liking me. Since I myself have been single for three years, I thought I could accept the girl's proposal. I agreed to his proposal and started exchanging ideas with her. The girl was very emotional and very serious about her partner. The girl is also very talented, so I liked it.

For the first three days everything was going well with her, but suddenly in the last two days everything started to turn upside down. The girl used to remember her ex when she talked to me. Due to which she started crying a lot. Even after I convinced her many times, she would cry. When I realized that her past was not allowing her to be one with me, I decided that talking to her was completely stupid. Because the girl can never forget her past, and start anew with me.

However, I ended the relationship today after seven days. It is natural that she will not give me much priority where the past is more important.