Failure vs. Success

Failure vs. Success

The chapter called "Decision" is very closely related to our lives. It depends on the type of our past, present or future. But in most cases we continue to suffer because of past wrong decisions.

Success then became the golden deer. Because the success of life, the lion's share of failure depends on decision making. Making the right decisions at the right time is one of the keys to success in life.

But 85% of people do not know how to take it. From formal dress in the morning to toothpaste at night - people suffer from duplicity in everything. This is where the frustration begins.

As a result, there is a rhythmic decline in life. One wrong decision can ruin everything in life. So it is very important to make the right decision. Career, family, love, friendship, everything is your responsibility to control.

Are you suffering from indecision?

Will I quit my job and start my own business?

Is the red dress more beautiful or the blue one?

Shall I have a breakup with my girlfriend?

We are confused about many more such issues. Before you start the main episode, the question for you is, what do you get most confused about? Let us know in the comments box.

Decide in a complex way

Today I would like to introduce you to some of the factors that affect the decision-making process.

1. Set goals

The common misconception about starting a business is which one is right for you. For example, the issue that 95% of girls suffer from indecision is whether they will study after marriage in the words of the family, or will they settle down in the marriage process after arranging their career first?

Now the question is, in what position do you want to see yourself after ten years, it is very important to make that decision. Although success is hidden on both sides, you have to determine it according to the environmental situation.

2. Giving importance to one's own decision

Research shows that people who do not use their thinking often make the wrong decisions. ‘For example - most of the time when it comes to career formation, we are more influenced by family decisions than by our own.

For which I can't find that pure joy even if I float in the sea of ​​money later. It seems that there is nothing, there is nothing. Although parents do not want to harm us, many do not take their children's wishes seriously. A.

It is important to remember that if you are steadfast in your decision, it will be easier to comfort yourself even if you fail at work later.

3. Confidence in one's own worthiness

It is said that if you are not afraid of your own career dreams, then it is not worthy of you. But the problem with most people is that they suffer from depression. What can I do? What will happen to me?

Must come out of this cycle. You have to be your own motivator. Even then, if someone tries to stop you, or discourages you, you have to think that their power is limited.

Learn about biographies of great people, stories of their struggles to increase enthusiasm. You will see that the mercury of your courage will continue to grow rapidly.

4. Accepting the advice of the wise

When people suffer from indecision, what they do is make decisions based on the people around them who may have no idea.

One wrong decision can ruin your golden future. This does not mean that you do not accept the advice of others. The solution is to pick people who have had similar problems. B

You can follow the words of the best successful people of today. You can innovate your decision by taking advice from others, but never completely be influenced by others.

5. Making the right decision at the right time

Many successful people can be heard sitting in the bathroom and making many important decisions in life. You may think that you should spend most of the day in the bathroom.

Wrong; Everyone has their own identity. Because, every human being has different thoughts. The time, environment and mood for decision making depends a lot.

The decision to sit in a jam for two hours straight will not benefit you, or the decision to sit in the office the next moment after eating boss jhari can be harmful to you.

So choose a time when your mood, environment is all in your favor. It could be a weekend or a morning. In this case, the probability of the decision being correct is 80% higher.

6. Not to worry too much

We are so helpless creatures that suffer from indecision even after making a decision, is the decision we made the right decision? Am I wrong?

But it has both good and bad sides. Much depends on a decision, so every decision should be considered. If there is any fear in the mind, there is nothing wrong with judging and analyzing it.

In this case, you may have saved your future from a wrong decision. This is definitely a good way to think about the decision. The problem starts when we become overly concerned about it.

The result is over-thinking, over-fearing the right decision.

Which is absolutely unbearable. It may be that you made the right decision with a lot of effort, but the extra thought gave you a ladder to ripen. Therefore, it is important to be careful in this regard.

. To be happy

Happiness or hardship in life may be the cause of the third world war, but it is difficult to find the answer.

Suffering, love, joy are all one's own psychological thoughts. Suppose you buy a dress that looks as beautiful as you like; But you are happy.

But when you hear that your friend has bought a good dress from you, then you must feel sorry for yourself.

There is no standard for what is needed to be happy in life. You will find happiness within whatever you have.

Don't be unhappy with your partner because your spouse is beautiful. In addition, adequate sleep, nutritious food, regular exercise will try to keep you happy.

If you are happy, you will be more focused on making decisions and in this case the probability of making the right decision is about 90%.

. Calculate work risk

The world's largest companies calculate the profit and loss before starting their new project which helps them to make the right decision. An account should be made before embarking on any task.

Because every task has a potential for failure. The most common mistake we make in measuring profit and loss is to calculate the amount of failure, that is, the amount of risk. And that's why in most cases we make the wrong decision.

The risks involved in every job are limited. So the amount of risk should be kept in mind while deciding on any task.

9. Knowing your own limitations

‘Man is bigger than his dream’ - everyone has the right to dream. But it must be reasonable. For a blind person to dream of becoming a surgeon is definitely a wrong decision.

So learn about your skills first, the advantage is that you can see the face of success by using your skills.

It will be difficult to see the face of lasting success if you do not know what you are good at. Acknowledge your limitations and move forward, making the right decision accordingly. Success will knock on your door.

10. Holding alternative options

Suppose you are going to visit an unknown place. You are not familiar with the language there. Gathered all the information to go there from someone of his own race.

But in the middle he forgot the road. Way now? If you had known about an alternative road, you would not have been in trouble.

It may be that it is not uncommon for you to feel overwhelmed when you have failed to make the right decision.

The solution is to make alternative decisions. Because no one is above mistakes. Instead of accidentally calling for failure, keep another way open for reluctance to succeed.

Every moment of our short lives is very important. Every moment is a new opportunity to organize yourself.

So by being patient and making the right decision, we can take advantage of this opportunity. We can turn around and make ourselves as role models.

Good luck to you on this journey to becoming a role model. Let us know in the comments the various casual problems of your life, we will try our best to give logical solutions in the next discussions. Thanks for staying with us.