Just Say Your Hello

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I feel like the article that I'm publishing this days is bilasa na and not so fresh like me anymore. Coz it's always drafted one and not a newly written one, lol. That is why I decided to write something that is newly written and still fresh like a freshly picked Tahong (◠‿◕). Lol.

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Yo' ᕙ(⇀‸↼‶)ᕗ so this morning Mommy D ask me to dye her hair and it is so easy lang naman coz she has a very short hair. So I go with it. While doing it, she asked me about my sister who's actually my brother who's a woman by heart, lol. She asked me if how is she and what's up to her and if she's doing good or what. I just said I don't know coz we don't really talk that much lol. We only chatted if we need something to each other or we are talking about Mama. But I know that she's okay naman and still as fat as my face, lol.

She's really getting bigger now coz she just love to eat. Mama also is giving her an earful coz she just eat and eat without proper diet and that is really bad. She's mahilig pa naman sa sweets like milktea. She's just concern coz we have the lahi daw ng may mga diebetes ba, aigoooo. Sa father side namin ganon. So Mama wants to take good proper care for herself. I am not sure if she's doing it but I hope so. In this time pa namam, getting sick is a bad thing coz that's another expenses and sis don't really save, aigoooo.

Okay, Back to Mommy D it's for a short time but we were able to talk about some things. She also asked me about my other brother and her partner. By the way, my brother's partner is pregnant again for their third child and I am not sure if I will be happy about it. I mean, I heard her partner had that something on her neck, was it goiter?!? Yeah like that I think and I also heard that getting pregnant while you have that is bad? Coz it can become bigger daw? I am not really sure. But if it has really bad effect then that pregnancy is really bad for her.

But she's already pregnant so we can't really do more about it. I just hope that won't affect her that much. Having a child is so hard as I see her. For sure she will have to stop again from working and will go back again here in her home and for sure too my brother need to double the grind to earn more. They are the one who bring that to their self so I hope they can make it through. I just hope they have enough savings to fulfill their needs. I feel like they are not moving at all because when things are getting good.

That's where another problem will arise. But I'm not saying that its a bad thing okay, her pregnancy. I mean, they are lack of planning and I think that is what's wrong. They will just do what they want without minding the consequences, sure it's their life but it is not them who be affected but also their family specially they don't even have savings. Aigoooo. I just hope that they are ready for that. I think my brother is working hard naman so it's on them so good luck to them. I just wish everything ends well.

This is actually not all, I mean the thing I talked with Mommy D. She also say that, I mean it's more like an advice for my future. She just said that I should save my own money coz when time comes that my siblings has their own family already a family they have to provide, if ever I got in need of something no one can ever help me by myself. She also told me thr stories about her nieces that after loving and helping them, they don't even remember them. I mean, like maybe showing up and say their Hello's.

They don't really need much but just the presence of them. Just a simple Hi or Hello or just a simple question of how are you and what's new to you. That simple thing that they are really not requiring but if only they will do it on their own. When I heard Mommy D saying it I notice a little sadness and longing for them. It is like they forget about them already just because they have their own family na. I mean, chatting or calling with them once in a while is not that time consuming right. I think just to hear them asking their pangungumusta is enough to make those oldies become happy.

It's not like they are asking for too much but.... Aigoooo. I feel sad for Mommy D.

How about you guys? Those people that took care of you before? Those people who gives attentions and love to you before, do you still take time ba to even reach our to them?

If not yet, then maybe this is the right time to do that yes?


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June 18, 2022

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Oh no . I guess that interest and relevance is a thing of the past hahaahahah. I'm surprised at people who get pregnant all the time without any planning. they get pregnant a second or even third time before a child grows up. incredible. hahahaah use a condom if you can't stop

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2 years ago

I'm not a talkative person but when it comes to those people who helped me before nangungumusta din talaga ako..kadalasan sila yung tumatawag pero sinasabi ko na ako lang ang tumawag para di masayang load nila

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2 years ago

when we were born in the world, there may be many stories that have been saved by our mothers because of the mischief that we often did when we were children, their efforts to raise us as children may have to be appreciated as high as possible because without them we would not exist and we might not exist. nothing in this world. we must respect them and respect the struggle of father and mother because they are heroes.

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2 years ago

Yung kaibigan ko sis ruffa. Alalang talaga siya sa goiter niya. Maiyak talaga siya nun dahil dun. Thankful God kasi naging okay na siya sis ruffa.

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2 years ago

Pinalaki talaga ako ng Mama at Papa ko ate mula bata ako. Pero natatakot ako para sa pamangkin ko ngayon na alaga ko. Baka balang araw hindi na rin nya ako pansinin kapag mas malaki na sya, hay :(

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2 years ago

Yan ngaaa, yong may sarili na silang pamilya kaya limot kana. Kahit simpleng hello sa text ni hindi na magawa talang noon, aguyyy

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2 years ago

Alam ko medyo masama nga if may goiter na magbuntis pero if andyan na ano pa ba magagawa natin, doble triple ingat na lng tlaga.

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2 years ago

Kaya nga, saka malalaki na sila. Sana yan na muna ang last. Sana ay maoperahan muna sya bago ang lahat sa sunod

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2 years ago

Oo kasi pareho naman sila mahihirapan, sana marealize nya un after giving birth sa pinagbubuntis nya ngaun

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2 years ago

World didn't take too much time for forgetting about us. We should make ourselves strong with money also. It is great when you spend your maximum time with your parents especially with your mom. Her advices are on her experience you must mind them.

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2 years ago

Ang alam ko madam, di pwede oe risky magbuntis kapag may goiter kasi parang may effect din yata sa bata or aomething like that.. Magpatingin kamo sya sa ob gyne nya just to make sure.

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2 years ago

Yon nga madam ee awan ko sa mgabyon kakaurat din ay

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2 years ago

nagka goiter din po mama ko noon pero pina operahan na naman habang maliit pa para hindi lumala, I hope maging okay lang po yung partner ng kapatid mo

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2 years ago

Balak na din nila yaan, kaso dina naman matutuloy kasi nabuntis aigooo

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2 years ago

You don't like many children?

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2 years ago

I dont like yes

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2 years ago

Naku mahirap talaga kapag may goiter sana hindi maka apekto sa kanya or kay baby no.

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2 years ago

Sana lang talaga, ang hirap pala kapag ganon aigooo

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2 years ago

Pag nakapag explore na nakakalimot talaga. Bihira na yung marunong lumingon sa pinanggalingan. Or baka busy lang talaga sila. Bigayan na natin ng benefit of the doubt.

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2 years ago

Yon na nga ee, kahit nga sana pangungumusta lang tru twxt or chat sana wala din.

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