Violence and insults are not justified at all in any name.
When I was in school I liked to fight, but I never insulted people, especially people who like to slit other people's pants.
My friends who like to do that, as far as I know they are not people who like to fight.
For me, punching someone was more fun at that time than pulling someone else's pants.
This also applies to the case of ade armando which is currently viral in my country, Indonesia. when he was hit in the face, some people were satisfied. perhaps because of anger some of them felt represented.
However, when he was almost naked, I was confused. which side of them are represented ?
-There isn't any-
Even if you don't like the person, don't let them insult you, I'm a person who strongly condemns insults.
In the realm of Religion, even enemies who have become prisoners cannot be humiliated, humiliated or persecuted excessively.
Quoting Cak Nun yesterday night, "No matter how much we hate people, no matter how angry we are at people, still be fair ".
•Violence in life.
Indeed, violence is often unavoidable, but if we can have a big heart, it can be avoided.
Physical violence can be justified in the name of dislike for someone. is this what is called ego satisfaction? possible.
Accept with a big heart, that life is meaningless if there is too much violence. as we live well and planned in the end we also face defeat, misery and death.
At the point when we have full awareness that life is meaningless, then tragedy and comedy will make no difference.
Disasters and tempests are futile, they do not need to be overestimated. disaster and luck are the same, yesterday and tomorrow is today.
•Try to be more patient with anything.
We as humans are required to be more patient, able to hold anger. we can sincerely accept and be able to tolerate fellow living beings.
It's hard indeed, but we must strive for it, so that our lives can be fine, there are no many problems, don't lose anything until they fail.
-As long as we try, we're not wrong-