No matter how sad you are, smile.
One day on one occasion, when he saw your friend with an unusual face, he was so very gloomy, and from his eyes a very deep anxiety emanated from his eyes.
When you ask repeatedly, he still answers "I'm fine". when asked again he would still answer, "Really.... I'm fine", until finally we found out from your friend who happened to be a neighbor, that it turned out that your friend's child was in the hospital and he was having financial difficulties.
Another story, there is an employee at the office, usually he often greets. that day he didn't talk much, he just kept quiet and didn't talk much, because seeing him different from usual days, everyone asked his condition, are you okay? he then replied, "yes, I'm fine and finally accidentally, the office cleaning staff found a piece of paper from the religious court, it turned out that he was in the process of divorcing his wife.
Nowadays, it is very difficult to meet people who want to hide their sadness and distress to others. It is not uncommon for us to own our sorrows and troubles for public consumption, not infrequently from us, when we get trouble, our fingers are quicker to write down the trouble on it. social media instead of thinking clearly so that the problem is quickly resolved.
What's the point if we are sad and difficult for others to know? so they care? No....!!!
They don't care, they just ask why, they just want to know. you can never be happy again by writing your sorrows and difficulties on social media, we will no longer be happy by telling your sadness in front of others. In fact you will be sadder, more difficult because everyone who sees will always ask, why you? what's wrong with you ?.
Only you and God knows how sad you are, because only God can make you calm again from all kinds of sadness and distress that you experience. no matter how you feel, only you know, no need to show others just because you're sad. The most important thing is that you look fine when someone is beside you. even though you really want to spill all your pain, but it's much better for you to know for yourself how your pain is.
Smile and spread happiness even though your heart is sad, smiling is not to cover your wounds, but smiling is a way to strengthen yourself when you are down.
Without you realizing it, you are a strong person because you don't want to show your sadness in front of others. keep smiling even though you are lying to yourself because that smile will strengthen you.
Maybe for everyone to feel that you are fine. Make others believe that you are always happy even though in fact you are holding a very deep pain. By looking happy, you will always be happy even though you are not.
Be happy even though you are being sliced because it does not reduce any burden even though you want to announce to everyone that you are not okay, there is no point in showing sadness in front of others. other people will only feel sorry for you, while you will still feel the hurt.
It's much better to keep the wound to yourself so that only happiness can be shown, don't show your sadness to the world. When you are sad, show your smile to the world so everyone will know how strong you are and people will be more and more embarrassed by your steadfastness.
Thank you, very able to enlighten the heart. Always learn to be strong in any condition maybe this is the way to motivate yourself, calm yourself down because only we know how to control it