Doesn't have to be liked by everyone

There is no person who does not want to be liked by many, there is no person who does not want to be loved by everyone. many opportunities are obtained when other people like us, many friends, job offers, always defended and many other help are always defended that will be useful for our lives.

But, is our life just to please other people? is our life just for everyone to like? is it true that if we do what people like can make our lives happy in its entirety? maybe yes, but maybe not.

What often happens is that when we try to make other people like us, we must be willing to sacrifice what we like. trying too hard to be liked by others has a harmful effect on our mental health. there is a feeling of emotional exhaustion, and a fear of doing things that other people don't like.

If we want to be liked, we should also be ready to compromise with anything and at any time we will not get anything. You don't have to force yourself to be liked by everyone, because no matter how great you try, there are still people who don't like it.

*Selfish ? No, that's not selfish.

Just let other people's opinions towards us, not mean to be ignorant or disrespect other people. But let's realize, that other people's opinions are beyond our control and we will not be able to control it.

When we are able to make other people happy, that's when we are already happy and it should be. when we are able to give to others when we have had enough and it is obligatory. But, how can we feed others when our plates are also empty? it means we have to be happy first.

Are you not tired of trying to please everyone so that you are still liked and loved even though you have to sacrifice your feelings that refuse to do that?

You won't rest easy having to pretend you're great because you can do anything. you will not be comfortable because you are not yourself. we are just human beings who can be sad, can be happy, need support, need to be angry because of disappointment and sometimes need to be alone without having to be in a crowd.

There's no need to think about trying to please everyone because you definitely won't be able to. Don't think about being liked by anyone without exception because it's like catching the wind chasing a shadow, you can never.

The most annoying thing about trying to please everyone is that we always try to get rid of our own interests as if we are not important people in the world, so it is difficult for us to feel confident. there is no perfect human in this world, if we can accept all the shortcomings and strengths of others, then do the same thing to ourselves.

*Identity.

What you're doing is being yourself instead of pretending that other people like you because everyone deserves to be themselves. showing who you really are will make your life more comfortable and work well than having to pretend to follow other people to keep them happy.

Trying to get other people to like you will make you lose your identity. Initially, you may have a clear life goal that must be achieved. but, because they don't like the way you are finally you start to doubt yourself and finally you are influenced and follow them and you forget your purpose in life from the start.

You don't have to force yourself to be liked by everyone by continuing to decorate your body with worldly masks. You will be tired, so live as it is. The point is, you don't have to be too busy looking for other people's judgments. You don't have to always seek praise from people who know you. because, if you continue to live like that then of course your life will never be calm.

Live as is and do not have to lean towards human judgment. free yourself to be liked or disliked by anyone because if so, of course, like whatever other people comment, it will not be burdensome, sad or even debilitating.

One more thing, don't think about other people who hate you, who don't like you or who often insult you so that you like your life.

So remember carefully, don't be too busy looking for human judgment. because they all have their own assessment standards. There's no need to explain yourself to anyone because those who like you don't need it and those who hate you won't believe it. After all, to keep wanting to look good in the eyes of humans is tiring, you won't be able to if you want to satisfy their desires about you.