To the bachelors, the saying that you need a supportive wife doesn’t necessarily mean that she must be a graduate or a corporate lady.
When you have a lady who doesn’t stress you beyond your limit, she’s supportive. When you have a lady who tries her best to ensure that she maintains the peace and harmony between you, your family and friends that existed before she came, she’s supportive. When you have a wife who goes down on her knees to pray for you, she’s supportive. When you have a wife who tries to instill the kind of discipline you would’ve instilled in your kids when you’re home, she’s supportive. When you have a wife who hates to see you hurt, she’s supportive. When you have a wife who always warmth’s your home with peace and love, she’s supportive.
As a Muslim man, you must always remember that your wife is under no obligation to support you financially even if she earns more than you, unless she decides to do so willingly. Being a supportive partner goes beyond financial support, because you do not need money to build a happy marriage. Ask yourself the number of rich couples that are divorced and see if money is always the answer.
Lower your expectations and Chase for the Barakat in marriage.
Marriage is a pure relation and 2e should not pollute it with expectations,greed,lust and suspecting partners. There should be mutual understand,respect and love for each other to work out a healthy marriage life.