Despites The Pain She Ended Up in Jahannam!
I look I see
Ya Rabb is unto Thee
Save us from this dunya bee
That stung our desires and play a Frisbee
Despite the pains she been through, she is ended up in jahannam knee!
Sometimes, I felt unease, disconcerted and sad to seeing how some of our sisters are handling the deen. I just have to ask myself , don't they ever think?
Her life cycle is all build on pains, the pains from childhood to adulthood to womanhood.
Let's take the pain of adulthood. It all started after marriage, thinking Alhamdulillah I am fee from the shackles of menstrual pain as told by some that, after marriage the pain will reduce. Yes, absolutely it will reduce, but that's doesn't justify the ends the pain.
At the long run, Alhamdulillah she became pregnant, hmm now she is having pregnancy pains at early stage (Some abdominal cramping and pain during pregnancy is often very normal, associated with everything from constipation or increased blood flow to the uterus in the first trimester to Braxton-Hicks contractions or round ligament pain in the second and third trimesters). From early stage to the delivery pain (Pain during labor is caused by contractions of the muscles of the uterus and by pressure on the cervix. This pain can be felt as strong cramping in the abdomen, groin, and back, as well as an achy feeling. Some women experience pain in their sides or thighs as well. ... Pain during labor is different for every woman)... Alhamdulillah she has given birth, Adupe fun Allah!
Now another pain season, which is he breast feeding pain, cohabiting with menstrual pain again after months of pregnancy.
To just lay a little emphasis on it all, women all through her life are in the cycle of pains; should we also talk of the heat in the jelibab? Should we talk of those that were and are being maltreated by their husband? Should we talk of those with family issues? Should we talk of those who haven't been given the fruit of the womb? Should we talk of..... Alas! Despite all the pains She still ended up in jahannam!
Subuhanalloh, How come our women don't think? How come they feel like Ma sha Allah am wearing khimar, gloves, socks and Niqob so jannah is sure for me? How they lost themselves to this dunya falling into tabarruj? Don't they think?
Who are we to blame Allah to letting you have all these pains? We ain't worthy too...but it is left to you to make a choice #Jannah or #Jahannam ? You gotta work for one.
Dear sisters, let the hijab you wearing collocates with your actions!
Seek more forgiveness from Allah.
Limits your desires for dunya!
The likes on your Facebook and the followers on your Instagram pages won't take you to anywhere, they won't intercede for you on qiyammah!
Those friends of yours won't be there with you in the grave, they can only click the like button on your page and retweet your tweets, once you are gone, you are forgotten!
Never feel to big to be corrected, regardless on how you been corrected...even if , all you need is to accept the corrections that creating scenes.
You shall be rewarded by Allah for all the pains you been through... But that's left to you by asking yourself, am I pleasing Allah.
Dear sisters, it is never too late to change, don't be in pains in dunya and ended up in another in akhiro... Allah loves you than inflicting you with that... Your action shall only determine.. Follow the right path.
We ask Allah to guide us.
Very well written post! Keep doing what you are doing, waiting for new blogs :)