Overthinkers are sensitive

They are just not sensitive on how others see and treat them but as well as how they do that to others too, specially to the ones they care. They often ask, mind, or observe you. Asking themselves if they're still not going beyond the line, if they made you mad or irritated, if they did something wrong, if they unintentionally hurt you. I hope you'll be patient to someone like them.

I used to be treated bad and invalidated. Explaining myself always receive as an argument, expressing my feelings became pathetic, and addressing my concerns for those things that bothers and hurts me made me dramatic.

To all of the people who's receiving such treatment, get away to that person. A person who really cares for you won't make your mental health worst. Your anxiety wouldn't be a problem. If they genuinely love you they'll listen to you, peacefully addressing concerns, and have healthy criticisms. You won't even have to worry if you're bothering them, once you got the taste of reality and saw who really cares for you, you'll understand what I'm saying. If not yet, then I hope you'll be patient to yourself. Open your eyes and reflect, you'll know if you're too sensitive or they're just insensitive towards you.

An overthinker always put themselves in different perspectives, that's why I know that you'll know what you deserve and what to fix on yourself.

Overthinkers Overlove

This is different at love bombing.

Love bombing is showering you with affection and attention and resisting your boundaries. However, an overthinker is always careful to your boundaries. They mind what you like and dont. They just purely love you. They always ask how you feel because they're having a hard time to trust themselves that they won't unintentionally hurt you or they know the feeling of being invalidated and not being asked that's why they're making sure you won't have to feel the same when you're with them.

Actually, it is not overlove. It's just loving you in the way they think you deserve. I think it is just called overlove because most of the overthinkers tend to love their partners more than themselves or at least they prioritize them more than they do to their own self. They love the purest but also they're the one who gets hurt the most.

That's why overthinkers should be careful when they love. At least at the very first phase of liking someone, I hope you all will be careful.

You'll never be too much to someone who really loves you and found you enough. However, if we love an undeserving person, they'll also hurt us in the way we don't deserve.