If You Want to Succeed, Focus On Changing Yourself, Not Others
The version of those people around us in our head doesn't exist. We can't really fully know each other if we keep expecting them to act and say the way we think of them.
Disappointment comes afterwards. Hoping for something that only exist in your head will only hurt you.
You can't keep thinking that everyone will act the way you think. Not even if we're close to that person. So instead of focusing on how others will help you, you must focus on how you'll change yourself.
How will you become more mature, how will you possess certain skills, how will you portray necessary characters, how to be the self you wanted to be.
Success starts within then it'll have domino effect to your surroundings. And take note that changing yourself is thousand much more harder than anything else.
Discipline and consistency. Two simple words yet two most important things that make your steps powerful enough to succeed.
Let us focus on ourselves, starting with our inner self. Everything will then radiate from within.