Don't keep settling for less. Easier said than done but we all know that sometimes what we want don't want us; sometimes what we want isn't good for us. The better won't be able to have a place in you if you'll keep holding to that one who's not good for you. If you'll keep being under then you'll never get over it.

Don't adjust your standard just for them to fit in. If they love you then they'll be better. You're not asking too much for wanting to be treated right. It's okay to cut off people who's toxic on you, it's not your loss. There's someone or something much better for you. Focus on yourself first.

Don't just let anyone in your life. Some people will call you bad for being uptight and keeping your character. Let them talk, no need to fuss for people who don't even matter.

You might've made repeated mistake. You might've sacrificed yourself a lot... you might've been through many storms. It's alright to be a mess for a while. However, let's not keep going back to a toxic cycle in our life. We have to move forward to be in the place where we feel home and treasured.

You don't have to play games and risk your feelings again. You're the one who's mistreated and hurt, you don't have to be so understanding just for you to have them. Love shouldn't be so hard when both of you want each other. If love feels like war then don't settle for that. You can't keep someone who don't want to be kept. Let them go, you already did everything you can. It's alright to give up in this situation...here, giving up is giving place to have a better one.

Always be the one you're dreaming of

You can start upholding the character and matters of the person you wanted to be. Build yourself. You're already enough but we still have so much more development in us. Suffer then party later. I'm not telling you to keep working, don't abuse yourself. Take some rest too. You don't have to be perfect anyway, just be you. The one who won't be easily swayed.

Be careful to those people you let in

Sometimes, people don't have pure intention. Sometimes, some are only good at the start. They'll walk into your life saying they love you then when you fall and had time together they'll be the one who'll leave you. Don't be with those person who will make you feel the need to beg for bare minimums. It's harder to let go when you let yourself be attached, so don't rush and never ignore any red flag. Choose. You can't just give a part of you to anyone who you're not sure of and vice versa.

Be with those person who will not let anyone tarnish your name even at your back. With the person who supports you and remind you your value, not the one who makes you question that. Settle to those with consistency, respect, security...feel it. Be happy. But learn to be happy alone first.

Author's Note:

Been so busy at my academics, that's why I'm not able to post some before. Thank you so much to my sponsor for never ending faith. I appreciate it so much.