Last time i have posted something about marry requirement in Noise cash .. I do not know why did i post that but the thought sudden come into my mind because this afternoon my one friend came in my house while he talked about marry. This is why i thought about it badly last few hours! So let's talk about it today!

The question is "When do you want to marry"?

If you come in Bangladesh then mostly in village side area, there has a trend to marry in early age which you can not imagine .. Though this trend reduce now but at past like time of my grandmother when girls usually get married when they were in 12-15 age.. This is called many early death case because of pregnancy issue .. You know early marriage and pregnancy lead a girl into death street.. But at past people did not understand this but they loved to married in early age thought they had no mistake as they girl family like to celebrate their daughter marriage early .. Anyway, this trend decrease now too much because of education .. And also at our grandfather time , there has less education facilities which was a major problem too about early marry . Anyway, now in our generation this early marriage trend decrease badly but still some people wanna marriage early .. But why this trend decrease in our generation ? Is this because of education only ? I think no but there has some reason too about self understanding and freedom so let's talk about it:

Do you wanna marry when you have a house?

I think the minimum requirement of marry is having your own house . Because if you are living in your father house with your wife and children then this do not look good as well you may do not feel any kind of comfortable it .. If you wanna say about joint family then that is another matter and topic.. Well, for me without having my own house and think about marry is the biggest fool work i think .. Because living in your own house mean having your won freedom as well facilities that you will not get from your father house .. This is the reason why some couple go town and live there while do not come back till they do not have any house in their town .. Infect this is a basic thing for marriage life .. Tell me your view about it?

Do you wanna marry when you have enough money?

I think this is the best decision and best time for marry when you have mone .. Because if you marry without having enough money in your pocket then you will suffer much problem . Especially about food problem and the facilities problem .. Just look to your area and you can see many early marriage couple facing food problem and basic thing problem which a family do not facing who married after having cool amount money .. Let's talk with a example: Such as you have no job or money in your pocket but your baby is crying for milk and you need to buy milk for him .. While you have no money in your pocket then what you will do ? You will find out many source for earning money but you will get no way .. In this case , your child is facing problem about his health just because of you as you engage with marriage when you had no money .. But those people who engage with marry when they had enough money , now is not facing any problem because they are stable in financial way.. This is why i think before get married you should be strong in financial way!

Do you wanna marry when you have nothing?

One of the worst decision about getting marry when you have nothing but still wanna get marry while living with your parents .. Infect your parents need to feed you too .. usually this happen mostly time in past generation but now a days this happen too .. Such as in my area one of the young boy got married and that is love marriage .. But the problem here is that he still depending on his dad earning as well live with their parents .. Though his parents has not enough room in his house as well food problem with basic facilities .. In this case , another member increase on in their family which is another problem .. So what the son decided is about planning to go city side area and having a job both wife and husband .. So suppose one years later they have a child then how will they grow the child ? Wife will stay home and husband will work who has less salary and hard to lead their life in city ? No away .. So what the boy will do ? Boy or husband will sent his wife in his village to live their for less expensive but is this is the solution ? I think no because when the wife will come village then the husband will face food problem because in hotel the food is expensive as well need to sent money in village for fee his baby ..In this situation both husband ,wife and baby will face problem about living which will affect most the baby future as he or she will not get enough facilities to success in future..

Which position you want to get married ?

Cheers!