People change every year and also the Generation as well. We are always changing trends and every people change their behaviours too. Everyone, to this Article we are going to talk about How every Boys Courting. Because I am corious if how the boys Court us.
In My experience, Since I am a Girl. I passed being a TeenAger and being a Teenager is being curious and it is their First time to encounter the reality of being a Boy and Girl. Like everything they are experiences in everyday living is their First time. Like:
Having a Crush in a early Age - Everyone experience having a Crush in someone and at the young age, We didn't know When and How but we just wake up in the next morning and notice that we are thinking about that someone am I right?
We didn't just have a Crush In someone we know in personal, we also have a Crush in every Movies and Dramas that we always watch and those feelings are just natural because we are young, we are innocent and we didn't know the things that we are doing because that is just a first time to experience. Some of us Having a Crush because of their Appearance, we always attract in How they looks (Handsome, Cute, and Beautiful) and that is one of the Reason that we always say when we asked by others 'Why do you like that someone?' .
At early age, it is natural for us to Like someone. Actually, not only in a Personal, Movies and TV series we always have a Crush. Even in a Different places, we attract in a different person even if we didn't know them. Like when you saw a Handsome Guy in a Supermarket and you always looking because He is Handsome.
My question now is Do you believe in Love at First Sight?
Everyone is believing in Love at First Sight. I don't know if this is because of their Appearance. You know, in this Generation, everyone likes someone because of their looks. Well, I can say that it is because of their looks because everyone is experiencing falling inlove because of how Cute, Beautiful, and or Handsome everyone is. Like because we Cannot take off of our eyes when we are looking at someone you notice. However, in this Generation it is just have 50% of chance that someone will like you back too.
In a past generation, I can also say that they are falling and believing in Love at First sight. Because In past generation, Ladies are very Gentle in their behaviours. It is an opposite of What in the Generation looks like now.
So We Can now Talk about The Difference in Boys Courting a Girls Before and After:
Before:
Boys are shy to Confess their feelings to Girls- they are not good confessing. Like they are also hiding sometimes in trees or other spots that they girl they like didn't see them looking to them.
Boys are writing a handwritten letters- In confessing their feelings to someone they like, they are writing a Hand written letters to the girl they like. They are sending some hand Written letters everyday so that they can always express the True and honest feelings to the girl they like.
They serenade them with their Parents- According to what my Grand father do to court my Grandmother, My Grandfather serenade my Grandmother in their house. Even if he is scared to the parents of my Grandmother. Well, he said that 'A Brave Man never surrender unless my love for her will dissapear'. That is the most Sweetest words that I hear to my Grandfather. He is also smiling while telling us a Story how he suffer. Because parents always want to know How hardworking the Man who Court their Daughter. In our country before Boys need to do:
Crack of Hood
Fitch Water
Farming with the Father of the Girl
Giving Foods for the Family of the Girl like fruits, rice, etc.
Before they become couple, they need to know the parents of the girl permission or Approval first.
Parents are strict before and it is not different in this generation they are still strict too because they care our future and that is their rule as our Parents. Parents giving some different trials in boys courting their Daughter. It is their decision in how they can decide and approve if how the suitors of their daughter want to see them show how they are sincere the love their Daughter.
Present Time
Boys are not shy to confess their feelings- in this Generation boys are good at hitting a girl. In different Public places, when boy like or attract in someone. They are approaching the Girl to know in the same moment and time. Like they can able to express their feelings by just looking at them and get to know the girl they meet. They can direct the word 'Miss, You're beautiful what's your name?' and turns to 'Can I get your number?' . Am I right? Sometimes, By the help of their friends too they can meet in some place and because of their friend connections.
Boys are just using Gadget to communicate- Since Mobiles become trend in every next generation and improving. Unlike before, Every teen agers use mobile phones to communicate to everyone now. So, using mobile phone,networks, and other things to use to communicate to everyone, boys are using this to find someone and to know some Girls everywhere in different places. Others are just courting in Social media and expressing their feelings in Chat messages.
They didn't serenade Girls to Court they are just giving flowers and chocolate and or They can just express their feelings in Chat- in this generation, Knowing parents of the girls is not Trend to the other boys now. They can just Court every girls in Communicating in Mobile phones and or if they are classmate in University or school they can just Court them in the place where the Parents didn't know. Because some of boys are scared to introduce their self in the parents of someone they like. They are not brave to Talk with the parents that they are courting their Daughter.
And that is the result Why we have some different cases in our Countries. Like, every girls just making their decision in their own. If they like someone too, they can let their self in a relationship with boys that their parents didn't know. It is also the reason why we have some 99% of chances why every young girls are pregnant in their young age and that is the reason why Boys are different from before. Not always boys are serious in courting and being in a relationship with girls. Because Girls change their self in every generation too they become easy to get and not careful in behaviour. Some of girls didn't respect their own self now because they are falling in a Trap of love.
I wonder if How it Feels when every Boys become a Man and they can still change their self in loving a Girl and see us as a Woman.
But I still believe that if a man truly Like and Love you, they can still do the things in How courting a Girl before. They can manage and able to express their love to you in that way when a they are really a Man and truly loves and see you as a Woman.
Thank you for Reading I Hope that everyone Likes my Article for today!
For me base in experience a man who is true in his feelings toward a woman, he will do courting in the house, not afraid to face the parents of the woman, and be a real man. It is out of respect and his good intention. If a man just court woman in the street or any places which is not proper, and express his feelings right away either through text or a sheet of paper for me, his intention is not pure, it is a just a pass time. I base my opinion in my past experiences and I am a person of the olds.