In Courting a Lady Boys Then and Now

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People change every year and also the Generation as well. We are always changing trends and every people change their behaviours too. Everyone, to this Article we are going to talk about How every Boys Courting. Because I am corious if how the boys Court us.

In My experience, Since I am a Girl. I passed being a TeenAger and being a Teenager is being curious and it is their First time to encounter the reality of being a Boy and Girl. Like everything they are experiences in everyday living is their First time. Like:

  • Having a Crush in a early Age - Everyone experience having a Crush in someone and at the young age, We didn't know When and How but we just wake up in the next morning and notice that we are thinking about that someone am I right?

    We didn't just have a Crush In someone we know in personal, we also have a Crush in every Movies and Dramas that we always watch and those feelings are just natural because we are young, we are innocent and we didn't know the things that we are doing because that is just a first time to experience. Some of us Having a Crush because of their Appearance, we always attract in How they looks (Handsome, Cute, and Beautiful) and that is one of the Reason that we always say when we asked by others 'Why do you like that someone?' .

At early age, it is natural for us to Like someone. Actually, not only in a Personal, Movies and TV series we always have a Crush. Even in a Different places, we attract in a different person even if we didn't know them. Like when you saw a Handsome Guy in a Supermarket and you always looking because He is Handsome.

My question now is Do you believe in Love at First Sight?

Everyone is believing in Love at First Sight. I don't know if this is because of their Appearance. You know, in this Generation, everyone likes someone because of their looks. Well, I can say that it is because of their looks because everyone is experiencing falling inlove because of how Cute, Beautiful, and or Handsome everyone is. Like because we Cannot take off of our eyes when we are looking at someone you notice. However, in this Generation it is just have 50% of chance that someone will like you back too.

In a past generation, I can also say that they are falling and believing in Love at First sight. Because In past generation, Ladies are very Gentle in their behaviours. It is an opposite of What in the Generation looks like now.

So We Can now Talk about The Difference in Boys Courting a Girls Before and After:

  • Before:

  1. Boys are shy to Confess their feelings to Girls- they are not good confessing. Like they are also hiding sometimes in trees or other spots that they girl they like didn't see them looking to them.

  2. Boys are writing a handwritten letters- In confessing their feelings to someone they like, they are writing a Hand written letters to the girl they like. They are sending some hand Written letters everyday so that they can always express the True and honest feelings to the girl they like.

  3. They serenade them with their Parents- According to what my Grand father do to court my Grandmother, My Grandfather serenade my Grandmother in their house. Even if he is scared to the parents of my Grandmother. Well, he said that 'A Brave Man never surrender unless my love for her will dissapear'. That is the most Sweetest words that I hear to my Grandfather. He is also smiling while telling us a Story how he suffer. Because parents always want to know How hardworking the Man who Court their Daughter. In our country before Boys need to do:

    1. Crack of Hood

    2. Fitch Water

    3. Farming with the Father of the Girl

    4. Giving Foods for the Family of the Girl like fruits, rice, etc.

    5. Before they become couple, they need to know the parents of the girl permission or Approval first.

Parents are strict before and it is not different in this generation they are still strict too because they care our future and that is their rule as our Parents. Parents giving some different trials in boys courting their Daughter. It is their decision in how they can decide and approve if how the suitors of their daughter want to see them show how they are sincere the love their Daughter.

  • Present Time

  1. Boys are not shy to confess their feelings- in this Generation boys are good at hitting a girl. In different Public places, when boy like or attract in someone. They are approaching the Girl to know in the same moment and time. Like they can able to express their feelings by just looking at them and get to know the girl they meet. They can direct the word 'Miss, You're beautiful what's your name?' and turns to 'Can I get your number?' . Am I right? Sometimes, By the help of their friends too they can meet in some place and because of their friend connections.

  2. Boys are just using Gadget to communicate- Since Mobiles become trend in every next generation and improving. Unlike before, Every teen agers use mobile phones to communicate to everyone now. So, using mobile phone,networks, and other things to use to communicate to everyone, boys are using this to find someone and to know some Girls everywhere in different places. Others are just courting in Social media and expressing their feelings in Chat messages.

  3. They didn't serenade Girls to Court they are just giving flowers and chocolate and or They can just express their feelings in Chat- in this generation, Knowing parents of the girls is not Trend to the other boys now. They can just Court every girls in Communicating in Mobile phones and or if they are classmate in University or school they can just Court them in the place where the Parents didn't know. Because some of boys are scared to introduce their self in the parents of someone they like. They are not brave to Talk with the parents that they are courting their Daughter.

And that is the result Why we have some different cases in our Countries. Like, every girls just making their decision in their own. If they like someone too, they can let their self in a relationship with boys that their parents didn't know. It is also the reason why we have some 99% of chances why every young girls are pregnant in their young age and that is the reason why Boys are different from before. Not always boys are serious in courting and being in a relationship with girls. Because Girls change their self in every generation too they become easy to get and not careful in behaviour. Some of girls didn't respect their own self now because they are falling in a Trap of love.

I wonder if How it Feels when every Boys become a Man and they can still change their self in loving a Girl and see us as a Woman.

But I still believe that if a man truly Like and Love you, they can still do the things in How courting a Girl before. They can manage and able to express their love to you in that way when a they are really a Man and truly loves and see you as a Woman.

Thank you for Reading I Hope that everyone Likes my Article for today!

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For me base in experience a man who is true in his feelings toward a woman, he will do courting in the house, not afraid to face the parents of the woman, and be a real man. It is out of respect and his good intention. If a man just court woman in the street or any places which is not proper, and express his feelings right away either through text or a sheet of paper for me, his intention is not pure, it is a just a pass time. I base my opinion in my past experiences and I am a person of the olds.

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Well you are right. Boys who are not courting a girl in personal is not really honest and sincere to their feelings because they didn't even do or hardwork to reached the girl they liked. They didn't work hard and do anything, they just saying sweet words and not act how they are truly in love.

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User's avatar Reo
4 years ago

I prefer the old school courting but how do I start? I can't even tell her Haha

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It is hard to tell to someone that you like him/her. I undetstand what you feel. But you should better do the basic but respectful way.

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User's avatar Reo
4 years ago

I Want to experience that, courting by a man in your house holding a flowers and chocolate or even if nothing as long as serious and he's ready to face your parents. Kahit wala ng harana basta ligaw sa house. Noon kasi highschool ako noon, uso na ang cellphone non ee, lahat ng naging bf ko puro sa text, kahit di alam ang itsura sige laang basta may bf. Pero di naman ako basta basta nakioag kita, walang kitaan na nagaganap dahil ayaw ko. Ahahaha, tapos pag gusto mo yung isang tao di na ako magapaligaw basta mutual ang damdamin ge na gora na iyan. Sa kalaunan ako nalang din ang nagsawa sa kagaganon e. Pero gusto ko pa din ma experience yan.

Kaya totoo talaga ang daming najujuntis sa panahon natin ngayon dahil din sa padalos dalos na desisyon, kala mo love ka talaga iba pala ang pakay. πŸ™„πŸ™„

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4 years ago

Wala eh. Kala kasi nila ung Puppy love true love na. Nung mga panahon kong ganyan eh Wala pa sa isip ko mag jowa prinoproblema ko pa yung assignment namen sa science na tita ko yung teacher namen don🀣🀣🀣

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User's avatar Reo
4 years ago

Haha, 4rth year ako nag start lumandi, haha, sa cellphone lang not sa personal puro malalayo kasi sila, alam mo yung mga nakikilala sa clan usong usi yan noon ee. Pero yong sakin naman alam kong laro laro lang, paramg for experience lang ba, yumf ang dali ko magkagusto pero bilis din magsawa πŸ˜‚. Ay mahirap ang sayo, may bantay ka

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Same. Uso talaga clan noon sumasali din ako sa ganyan dati tsaka puro malalapit silang lahat kalapit barangay at ibang school lang kaya di ako makajowa HAHAHAHA 🀣 madami kasi akong family member na nakatira sa mga malalapit na places nila kaya ayown gang text text lang walang Ligaw ligaw.

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User's avatar Reo
4 years ago

Ahahah, ako kahit saan nasali ee, kaya go lang ng go, kahit walang mukha, gooo. Ahah

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Naexperience ko na yan eh yung bang bibigyan ka ng bulaklak, chocolate tsaka may hand written letters sa monthsarry nyo. Knows ng ate ko non kasi kasama namen siya tuwing may date sa monthsarry Mapa 7/11, mcdo, at jollibee din kaso gastos ni Mama lahat. 🀣 hahahaha Support na support kasi siya don sa Bf ko dati gusto nila para saken pero naturn off ako sakanya non kaya Brinake ko siya.

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User's avatar Reo
4 years ago

Ay sana all ako. Pero yan ang maganda supportive sila sakin kasi lahat ay lihim, pero wala akong nilalabag na alam mo yun pupuslit sa gabi para makipag kita, hindi ko nagawa yan, may takot pa naman ako sa mader ko, hindi pa naman ganun kalala ang ang nararamdaman ko para gawin yaan. Haha, why naman na turn off ka? Anong ginawa?

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4 years ago

Sinong di matatakot eh parang palo palang na kahoy eh kumakaripas na ng takbo🀣 Hahahaha

Ako di nila nasusuportahan.. sila pa mismo mag dedecide kung ano gusto mong gawin sa buhay mo. Ksya nga di ako nag aral ng college kasi alam kong pipilitin lang din nila ako sa gusto nila. Sobra silang strict pero alam ko naman na para din lang naman sa ikabubuti ko ginagawa nila. Kaya lang minsan nakakasakal kasi lahat sila nasusunod para akong robot

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User's avatar Reo
4 years ago

Ahahaha, takot din ako jan naku, baka mapalayas ng wala sa oras, sasabihin pa non, pwd ka namang mag boyfriend, basta sasama ka non sa kanya magsama na daw kami 🀧 galamo yun πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Ay bat naman ganon, pweo sayang namam dear, bat dika nag college, sayang lang pag ibang bansa ni mader mo, ako nga diko bet ang course ko noong una, yun na pinili ko kesa educ, naku makakapanakit ako mg bata pag hindi agad nagets ang turo ko, dito nha sa bahay pag nagapaturo sina mader, nayayamot saakin gawa ng hindi daw ako marunong magturo tapos lagi pang galit, pano namam si nila magets agad ang turo ko πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚.

Pero nagustuhan ko din naman any bsit, ano bang gusto nilang course ang kunin mo sana? Ranas ko din yang nakakasakal ma pag aano nila, kaya minsan nasasagot ko sila, πŸ˜… me bad.

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