How to boost our Self-confidence to Speak in front of Everyone?

One of the most fearer of the other people is to speak to everyone. We can experience being shy or nervous everytime we encounter some different kind of situation in speaking. So to this article, We are going to talk about:

How To boost our Self-confidence to speak in front of everyone

Are you also one of those people who are a shy type or a nervous one in speaking in front of everyone?

I have some different kind of situation about Speaking in front of everyone. This is an example but I know that you will relate too.

Situation number 1: Reciting in front of the Class

Some of us really has a fear to speak in our class esp. when it is recitation when your name was called by your teacher or advicer to recite in front of your class about your work or activity.

Because you are nervous and worried to your self and to your activity or work that you do. You are nervous if you will make some mistakes in Speaking because you know that to yourself that you are not that good at explaination, speaking in english, and you are not brave to face your teacher. It has a lot of worries, esp. when you experience being a bullying victim in your class. Because some of our classmates always laughing to us and didn't take seriously your work or activity.

Situation number 2: Speaking with some Random people you didn't know

The situation of being shy to start of conversation with some random people in front of you. Do you experience when you like to be friend someone new to you? Like when you are new in College University and you didn't have some friends there and you are just lonely. It is hard to encourage someone who you didn't know to talk with you or start a conversation with them like you are shy and you don't have a confidence to talk with them.

You don't have a confidence because you think that you cannot pass to their taste. Because sometimes we have some people that want to be friend base in how you are rich, you are genius, you have your talents and so on. We encounter some people who are very picky to pick some friends.

Another situation is someone you will just now or see beside you in some places. Do you also experience talking with your seatmate who you didn't know? In your class in your first school day, in the bus or in other public rides, and in the place where you didn't know or not familiar. Sometimes we didn't have a confidence in asking some Questions that you are curious about because you are shy to talk with them. I also experience that when my first travel in a place that I am not familiar with. Because that is my first time in traveling and I don't have a companion. It takes me some minutes to ask someone beside me if where my destination, how many hours and minutes to wait, if the way is right, and so on. I am so dumb in traveling my self because I didn't experience going to different places with my classmates before because I have a strict parents.

Situation number 3: Speaking speech in front of many People

We have some different kind of situation in speaking some speech in front of everyone. Just like the situation number 1, it is also hard to speak in front of many people. Because you are worried to your speech if it is really right to say, if your grammar is correct, you will make some mistakes of speaking and so on.

I also experience talking in the crowd, speaking my speech during the Contest of Poster making contest before it is almost 11 years ago, It was held in SM City Rosales. I didn't know that there is a explanation in what you draw and what is the meaning of your poster. I didn't prepared because my Teacher in that subject, didn't tell me about it. However, I am glad that I can make a solution and I can adjust quickly because I also love arts and I am thankful to the 'Theme' of the contest. But I didn't win because I know that there are a lot of people who do their best too and I also do my best so it is okay.

Another situation in speaking speech in front of many People is if you are a Host of the TV show, contest, and MC of an Award ceremony, being a guest speaker in your area's Programe, you are invited in wedding, you won in a Contest and so on.

Situation number 4: Speaking in front of the CEO and other important rule in Businesses

It is also hard to speak in front of your boss. You will not know if your presentation ideas in their business will approve or they will like it. Esp. when the other boss of the company where you are working is strict in their business because they don't want to fail in business.

I didn't know about office business and work but there are some people who are doing presentation to present your business proposal in the Company. I just notice it by watching some TV Drams, movies, and Stories in wattpad where there are some rich people who have a company and some employee involved.

Now my question is What is Public Speaking?

Public speaking can tap into a viper’s nest of dread with seemingly infinite possibilities for messing up and creating scar-tissue embarrassment in front of a crowd. 

Because sometimes we cannot do well speaking in front of some many people. We can have some mistakes of speaking or tells what we are thoughts in front of everyone so that sometimes we have some possibility that we can feel some embaracement to everyone.

What To do to Boost our self-Confidence in speaking infront of everyone?

Boosting confidence is hard to take. We can hard to adjust esp. when we are still new in socializing to some people.

I have some basic steps in how to boost our self-Confidence to speak infront of many crowds and I just hope that these following that I will share to you will help you improve in speaking in public

• Trust yourself- One of the thing that you will do first is to trust yourself. Trust yourself in everything that you want to do. So that you can make yourself comfortable in talking in everyone. You cannot speak in public if you don't have a trust in yourself that you can do it. Because that is one of the thing that we need trusting yourself in everything just believe in yourself.

• Think possitive- thinking some negative thoughts cannot helps you in situation where you are at need. It is just making you to down your self confidence more. So that you will need to think possitive and think the things that will happened if you do better.

• Smile in front of everyone- Smiling in front of many people is hard when you are feel nervous. However, smiling can also make your boost confidence because smiling can makes your day better. While talking you can make your self smiling in front of the crowd so that they can also smile to you and their smile makes you feel better.

• Enjoy being in front of the Crowd or other people- You will boost your selg confidence if you will enjoy being in the stage or in front of many people. Like you will just consider your audience as your friends. You can add some things that can make your audience laugh, smile, and so on. Nervousness is just in a start but when you are use to it, you can speak to them in your own way and go with the flow.

• Be Yourself- In communicating you don't need to change yourself. Be yourself so that everyone will know you in what you are really you are. Show that you didn't care the things that they think about you and if they will say anything about you, you can answer them in Kindness. Be kind to everyone and talk with them in a good way so that they can communicate with you.

• Do your Best- Do the things that you think or you can do to communicate with everyone. Plan something or think wisely in how you can communicate with them.

Communicating and Speak in Public is really hard because sometimes we are new in the situation that we never do it before. Esp when you encounter a new environment and experiences in your life. However, we can communicate and speak in Public if we have that things that I mentioned above.

Thank you for reading my Article I hope that you Like it. Are you also a shy type person who cannot have a confidence in speaking to other people esp. in public?