In your young age, It is easy to think your Future like "HOW would you like to become", "WHAT are you like to become in the future?" Etc.
All of us experienced to Draw our future. It is always part of our Lesson in our School. Our teacher incourage us to draw or represent to your classmates and to your parents if what would you like to be.
But when you will be in the stage of Maturity, It is hard to think what you really want to be. Why? I am one of those student who didn't know what really what I like to become. We really have a lot of choices but some of them makes my self-confidence down. I'm scared of failures and not for my self but for my Parents. If you are reading this and have the same problem about future then you read it right.
Because we Students experiencing things that lead to Failures about future in our life I will give you some examples:
I believe I am not the only one who experienced having a strict parents. Because, one of the Problem of every Child is their parents like they always control your future and you always treated like their puppet and it always lead to depression and that's why many children at their young age rebel to their parents.
I can't blame Children acting like that because It is hurt when parents didn't have a trust to their own child. They always think that they are always right they didn't hear their childrens side. But, I can't also blame Parents for acting like that to their children. Because they just want to make sure that their child is in good future. 'Mother's knows best' right? But not at all the times, our parents will the one who will choose future for their childrens. YES, It is parents right to ask "What" your child plans for their future but It is not right to dictate what to do for their own future. I just want to tell parents that If you want to be successful your children, Support and Love them, teach but not dictate them.
One of the problems of childrens for their future is having a single parent. There's a lot of reasons why we have Single parents in this world. Having baby at the young age is one of the common reason why.
Children who didn't think twice about future fails. Some of the children who pregnant early is connected to our first topic above, It is about Rebel to their parents. Some of parents choose to separate when they have affairs and that is one of the reason why we have single parents and one of the reason why children can't study. Some parents didn't think about their first child when they have another family. It is sad to think but children who didn't have a complete family is the most saddest and experiencing painful though to their life. It is not easy to be born in separated family so, it is always lead to failure future. But, that is just for a weak children. If they are really think about their own life and future they should think or plans to be successful. Am I Right? Some children who are brave and strong is always becoming Successful such as in a Dramas or in the stories that we always read and watch. If you are from Separated family, you should know about this. If you really want to become successful, work hard. You should learn how to live in this world by your own sweats if you don't have parents to help you. I believe you and us will become successful someday and I will make sure that someday when you become successful, you should proud to yourself because you became brave enough to passed the obstacles in your life.
And that Is all about this article there is a lot of Problems that may cause of failures but I didn't include them all because I know that you already know about it. I adviced to all readers who are not successful yet, You should think carefully about your future. Choose what you really like to become and Don't let your parents decide in your own future because It is hard to adjust and you can't enjoy that ambition if the other people is the one who choose what you will become and always Think possitive don't let your self-confidence down be brave and strong. Work hard and be responsible to yourself.
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