Experience

This experience took place in an Old People's Home in the United States and changed the psychological form of the whole world. 'Most of us are not aware of this experience and its consequences, although peace in our lives is not work and happiness.' If we understand this tragedy of aimlessness today, the shape of our lives will change.

In an Old People's Home in the United States, elderly people with dreaded diseases lived, these few months of guests were old. All the guests who came to this Old People's Home knew they would no longer be able to see the beauty of the world. The Old Home staff was also aware of the destination of these guests. It also cares for these patients in their hearts and lives, but then a university professor said. He had a psychological experience with the guests, 'he arrived at home with a few pots of plants. He formed two groups of older patients and divided them into two groups.

The professor told a group that it is their responsibility to water them, keep them in the sun, compost them, feed them, tect them from cold and heat, and protect them from insects, flies, and birds. Pick up, don't pick it up if you don't want to. The professor handed over the plants and started reviewing the activities of both groups. The old men of Group One started taking care of the plants. In some of these chapters and mothers started watering the gums. Some used to dig them, some used to compost them, some protected them from the seasons and some protected them from flies, mosquitoes, and birds.

The professor also saw the physical condition of the sick elderly change. 'He saw that before they found the plants, they spent the whole day in bed.' They were irritable and ill-tempered, and they were also angry at the slightest of things, but after getting the plants, their mood changed. Their mood became pleasant. They spoke politely to each other and with the medical staff. 'They started feeling hungry more than before.' They got out of bed and walked, and their dependence on medicines decreased.

Their pain also decreased and they became physically fit, while there was a difference in the lifestyle of the other group compared to them. They were likewise bedded all day and quarreled with medical staff and fellow patients. This continued for a year. The professor was surprised to see when he made the sheets of both groups later in the year.

The professor noticed that 30% of group 2 patients died sooner than group One patients and the elderly. It was a shocking study at the end of which the professor concluded that the old men of Group One had found purposes in living in e while group two patients had no purpose in life but their medical and psychological conditions did not change. The professor said that when life carries the burden of another life, its strength, endurance, and courage increase, and the first life becomes happy and strong. If you put your life into this study, you will find answers to all your shortcomings, 'defects' deficiencies, and depression. In our lives, when a goal comes around, our immunity increases.

Our body is empowered and our mood becomes happy, and if we become aimless, we begin to feel that we have done what we had to do, then we begin to consider ourselves as burdens of the earth, and This thought leads us to bed death. Lack of purpose or goal creates space in our bodies, our hearts, and our minds. This gap gradually hollows us out from within, and this hollowness later becomes home to various diseases and various disorders.

You must have often seen government employees, military generals, and high-ranking police officials growing old rapidly after retirement. They are happy and smart till the last day of service. They laugh and wake up every day, but if you see them a year after retirement, it becomes difficult for you to recognize them. Their backs are bent. It's done. They have undergone two heart operations, they take five tablets in the morning, afternoon and evening, and they are scaring the youth by referring to the verses.

Reciting the Qur'an praying, 'performing more, having a beard, and wearing a shalwar kameez is a very glorious activity, but it is not necessary to wait for retirement for this glorious activity. You should start all this at the age of fifteen or sixteen, but ninety percent of our bureaucrats, army officers, and senior officials of civil departments, realize it after retirement. Why? The reason for this is escapism.

These people are active till retirement, but after retirement, they feel useless and aimless, although they start visiting hospitals and mosques to avoid death. 'They are under the control of doctors and clerics.' In this part of their age, if they find stubborn scholars, their hereafter swells, and if it is at that age, When the semi-mature world is controlled, they do not find peace even in scholarships and acts of worship.

They get even more narrow in life but you won't find this kind of depression in people like Bill Gates etc. 'These people are also old, but as they get older, they become healthier and more active than ever before. Why? Because as they get older, their purpose becomes young and this goal gives so much energy to those who soften old age on them.

The biggest problem in our society is aimlessness. If we are young, our lives have no purpose. We grow up, we grow up, and we get old, but there is no goal in our lives. We spend our childhood and youth in education. This education gives us a degree and we get a job based on this degree. But this job, this degree, and this education also do not make our lives purposeful. This body does not instill passion in our mind and our soul, even though we continue to get bored in life because of this aimlessness. We get upset and irritable.

You must have seen a certain kind of apathy on the faces of most people in this country. 'This version is ll empty from within and this gap has made us a patient of depression. We are also confused with each other. 'We have also gone to the support of bullets and doctors. 'Pakistan uses the most medicines in the world. Each other person is suffering from some bullet or the other and somebody is drinking syrup and most of us are getting older before age and the only reason is a lack of purpose.

We have not set any purpose in our personal and national life to date. 'I am sure if we set a purpose in our lives today, even if we have to grow flowers and clean our environment or make crying children laugh, the shape of our lives will change tomorrow and we will avoid doctors. Even from the pin. Our lives will no longer be tormented.