Difficulties teach us

In this world, some people have such difficulties that no other person has. A man, considered a genius all the time, marries a woman who not only tortures her but also physically. Such stories are heard about big personalities including Abraham Lincoln. Men are amazed at those who are disgusting, but their wives and daughters wash their feet and drink.

Once I saw a strange video. A child was born to paper pickers. As a child, he fought and entered the school for some time. He would read the words on paper and stay at home and prepare and take the test. After all, he got an American scholarship after he passed a competitive exam. There was an outcry in the area. He recorded and sent his video in English from the United States. He cried continuously throughout the video.

What do you think was the biggest problem in this guy's life? Everyone will say: To be born to paper pickers. This answer is wrong. His real problem and the real enemy were his tears.

These tears flow when a man begins to pity himself. In the language of Sufism and psychology, it is called self-pity. In self-pity, a man dives into a sea of intense love and intense sympathy and becomes so emotional that all his energy begins to be spent shedding tears. Its paths further forward are blocked. Since the self has a strong love for itself, it feels pleasure to empathize with itself. Man gets used to this pleasure.

In the meantime, he has chemicals released into his brain that give him drug-like pleasure. The work which man is constantly enjoying is to spend the rest of his life in the same work. In the same way, drug addicts do not forget their whole life, children, and dignity.

A girl misses. There was a program on foreign TV. His name was " Boomerang". The program highlighted mistakes caused by surgeons that would ruin patients' lives. The girl had a tumor on her waist. The doctor's negligence during the surgery caused a spinal cord to crack. She became disabled for the rest of her life. His spouse left him. Obviously, who will now like it? She cried so much that she couldn't even say anything during the program.

One example is Manila Mazari, who has accumulated numerous successes in life after becoming disabled.

One example is Stephen hawking. The language of the girl who cried continuously on the TV show was working. His arms were working. She was able to eat with her hand. She was able to use a wheelchair with her hand. Stephen Hawking, the greatest physicist, and astronomer of the era could not even shake his finger. Could not speak a word. All his interaction with the world was attributed to the sensor on his cheek. At the last moment, this slight movement was also coming to an end. You pick up any Stephen Hawking interview. He will not see you crying or emotional anywhere; although the kind and the long disability Stephen Hawking spent, the girl could not imagine him.

Boxer Muhammad Ali is unique in that there is no other example of the terrible and prolonged illness he saw after the strength. Despite being scientifically the most resourced in the world, Stephen Hawking was completely disabled. The same completely disabled person becomes the most famous person in the world. Once she said physical disability gave her opportunities to think more.

Perhaps this fame and success were compensation for this disability from God. As far as self-access is concerned, 'God is not a fallen object' that is found in bonuses with other achievements.

All the eminent people you find in the world, somewhere in everyone's lives you will see such pain, that others can't imagine. The famous ones were still when instead of mourning, they accepted the pain. There is something in your life that is not for others, but it is not a coincidence. It is the pain that teaches you.

When a child stumbles and goes through pain, he learns to maintain balance, otherwise, he will fall for the rest of his life. The hardships you bear in life are specifically designed by God for you.

Some secrets of reaching greatness are hidden in pain. It is now up to you to reach the immortal greatness hidden in this pain, or, like most people, to surrender yourself to tears permanently, in a state of self-pity. It is certain, however, that pain is inevitable to deepen thinking. Only the one who goes through terrible suffering writes a stammering poem.

Thanks for your attention!