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So In this Article i would talk about self -respect and ways of respecting yourself and also will briefly talk about respect of other peoples...

So first of all let's talk about What exactly is respect?

I think Respect is the sense of worth or personal value that you attach to someone. It is an overall evaluation you give someone based on many factors – what that person is doing with their life, how they treat you and others, whether they are honest or not and if they seem to consistently do good things, large or small, for other people.

In short, respect is a positive view that you form of how someone is living their life. On the other hand, self-respect is your view of how you’re living your life.

Respect is something that starts from your inner , It all starts from our self-Respect , if we can't respect ourselves , we can't respect others ....let me discuss this in detail ......

It all Starts with Self-Respect (Inner )

I guess Respecting yourself means giving and defining your own worth and value as a human being....Let we Think about this: if we do not respect ourselves, it will be more difficult for us to respect anyone else. So it all begins with self-respect.....if we as a human being can't evaluate what our potentials are , then we simply can't judge others .....but here the Question arises that how can we respect ourselves , what are the things that we should to respect ourselves ...Let me discuss that below ...

• Being an Honest Person ..

we must be honest with ourselves and with others , in order to build a strong self-respect ....when we will be honest with everyone , it will feel like i am on the right track and we will love ourselves more , so it will gain self-respect ..

• Education…

A vital key to self-respect is knowledge.....Education ia the important key to self-respect , when we get more and more knowledge ,it will gives us confidence and courage to face the difficuties of life and a confident person always respect themselves ...

• Understanding Responsibility… I think a person who is responsible is much more respect himself /herself than the one who is irresponsible.....when we take the responsibility , it gives us confidence which is the raw material for self-respect ...

• Understanding the Value of Good Manners…

I guess Knowing and exercising good manners and proper conduct will make you feel good about yourself , and u start discoveribg youurself which gives u the best version of yourself..Also others will respect you for your good manners and proper conduct , which also gives u something to respect yourself ...

• Learning When and How to Apologize…

I would say Accepting responsibility involves formally apologizing for wrongdoing and your mistakes .......if u apologize for your mistake , it will create respect for you in other peoples and also u will feel great that u made a mistake but u realize it on time and made an apology ...

• Learning to Understand Which of Your Friends are Good Influences and Which Ones are Bad Influences…

I think We must learn to emulate those who are good influences and ignore those who are bad influences.......we have two kinds of frnds ...Good and Bad ...Both have its own influences ....let say Good Friends , when we are in company of Good Friends , we will get more opportunities to explore ourselves and make ourselves the bwst possible version and things will go in opposite direction when we are in company of Bad Friends ....

we all need to work on these points diacussed above in order to carry a well-rounded respect for ourselves ......If u are missing any one of them , just start practising it in your daily life and you will see things will become better and better by time .......and it's necessary to because our whole lufe depends on our self-respect ....our goals, aims , dreams all depends on how much we respect ourselves and our abilities ....without self-respect we can't even think of our dreams ......

Now i thunk we should talk lil about respect of Others ....

Showing Respect for Others ..

Just like with yourself, when you demonstrate respect for others, you give value to their being and ideals. In addition, you’ll make someone feel good by granting them respect, provided, of course, that it’s something that they deserve.

One of the best ways to show respect for someone is to truly listen to another’s point of view. Obviously, we’ll not always agree with one another on every topic , but we should allow each other to have and express our own views – regardless of whether we agree with them or not. 

There’s nothing wrong with affording some people greater respect than others. You should be kind and polite to everyone – no question about that. But for many reasons, some of us simply deserve more respect than others. For example, I think we would all agree that a consistently honest person deserves more respect than a habitual liar....The honest person off course deserves much better respect but in this you can't disgrace other , u ahould respect others too because respect always related with how u think about yourself , what your inner says to you ...

In short , Respect is one of mankind’s most noble sentiments. The highest levels of respect are always earned – never given. This is true for self-respect as well as respect for others. Before granting the highest level of self-respect or respect for others, make sure the person is worthy of the honor.....U should think before giving highest rank of respect to someone ....

in the Last I would like to add a quote by "Laurence Stone " i.e

"Respect for ourselves guides our morals;
respect for others guides our manners.”

So it's all about Moral and Manners ...

I hope U guys like my views and will add something To it ....

Thank You

© Rasguly