Self-Respect And Respect For Others..
*Greeting Everyone !*
*So In this Article i would talk about self -respect and ways of respecting yourself and also will briefly talk about respect of other peoples...*
So first of all let's talk about What exactly is respect?
I think Respect is the sense of worth or personal value that you attach to someone. It is an overall evaluation you give someone based on many factors – what that person is doing with their life, how they treat you and others, whether they are honest or not and if they seem to consistently do good things, large or small, for other people.
In short, respect is a positive view that you form of how someone is living their life. On the other hand, self-respect is your view of how you’re living your life.
Respect is something that starts from your inner , It all starts from our self-Respect , if we can't respect ourselves , we can't respect others ....let me discuss this in detail ......
***It all Starts with Self-Respect (Inner )***
I guess Respecting yourself means giving and defining your own worth and value as a human being....Let we Think about this: if we do not respect ourselves, it will be more difficult for us to respect anyone else. So it all begins with self-respect.....if we as a human being can't evaluate what our potentials are , then we simply can't judge others .....but here the Question arises that how can we respect ourselves , what are the things that we should to respect ourselves ...Let me discuss that below ...
***• Being an Honest Person ..***
we must be honest with ourselves and with others , in order to build a strong self-respect ....when we will be honest with everyone , it will feel like i am on the right track and we will love ourselves more , so it will gain self-respect ..
***• Education***…
A vital key to self-respect is knowledge.....Education ia the important key to self-respect , when we get more and more knowledge ,it will gives us confidence and courage to face the difficuties of life and a confident person always respect themselves ...
***• Understanding Responsibility***… I think a person who is responsible is much more respect himself /herself than the one who is irresponsible.....when we take the responsibility , it gives us confidence which is the raw material for self-respect ...
***• Understanding the Value of Good Manners***…
I guess Knowing and exercising good manners and proper conduct will make you feel good about yourself , and u start discoveribg youurself which gives u the best version of yourself..Also others will respect you for your good manners and proper conduct , which also gives u something to respect yourself ...
***• Learning When and How to Apologize***…
I would say Accepting responsibility involves formally apologizing for wrongdoing and your mistakes .......if u apologize for your mistake , it will create respect for you in other peoples and also u will feel great that u made a mistake but u realize it on time and made an apology ...
***• Learning to Understand Which of Your Friends are Good Influences and Which Ones are Bad Influences***…
I think We must learn to emulate those who are good influences and ignore those who are bad influences.......we have two kinds of frnds ...Good and Bad ...Both have its own influences ....let say Good Friends , when we are in company of Good Friends , we will get more opportunities to explore ourselves and make ourselves the bwst possible version and things will go in opposite direction when we are in company of Bad Friends ....
we all need to work on these points diacussed above in order to carry a well-rounded respect for ourselves ......If u are missing any one of them , just start practising it in your daily life and you will see things will become better and better by time .......and it's necessary to because our whole lufe depends on our self-respect ....our goals, aims , dreams all depends on how much we respect ourselves and our abilities ....without self-respect we can't even think of our dreams ......
Now i thunk we should talk lil about respect of Others ....
*Showing Respect for Others ..*
Just like with yourself, when you demonstrate respect for others, you give value to their being and ideals. In addition, you’ll make someone feel good by granting them respect, provided, of course, that it’s something that they deserve.
One of the best ways to show respect for someone is to truly listen to another’s point of view. Obviously, we’ll not always agree with one another on every topic , but we should allow each other to have and express our own views – regardless of whether we agree with them or not.
There’s nothing wrong with affording some people greater respect than others. You should be kind and polite to everyone – no question about that. But for many reasons, some of us simply deserve more respect than others. For example, I think we would all agree that a consistently honest person deserves more respect than a habitual liar....The honest person off course deserves much better respect but in this you can't disgrace other , u ahould respect others too because respect always related with how u think about yourself , what your inner says to you ...
In short , Respect is one of mankind’s most noble sentiments. The highest levels of respect are always earned – never given. This is true for self-respect as well as respect for others. Before granting the highest level of self-respect or respect for others, make sure the person is worthy of the honor.....U should think before giving highest rank of respect to someone ....
in the Last I would like to add a quote by "Laurence Stone " i.e
*"Respect for ourselves guides our morals;*
*respect for others guides our manners.”*
*So it's all about Moral and Manners ...*
***I hope U guys like my views and will add something To it ....***
Thank You
© Rasguly
Of All the cryptocurrencies, BCH or Bitcoin Cash is what I would love to HODL because of its stability and alsp due to the influence of read.cash and noise.cash that truly made my journey very wonderful....these two plateforms just compell me to love BCH .... The value of BCH may increase or decrease throughout time as it follows the parabolic movement of a Bitcoin yet its actual value never depreciates just like the common currency. Yet the best thing to do is to continuosly hold and HODL and wait for the most perfect time.....i have complete trust on BCH that's why i am not worrying about the market , be a long term invester especially if u r holding BCH ....BCH will hopefully be on top , all we need is to stay cool and wait for perfect time to come ...
Power of Habits..
Greeting Everyone , In this Article i will share with you guys what basically habit is , How it build and how it affect you and your Life ...
Habits, by definition, are *choices* that we all make *deliberately* at some point—and then *stop thinking* about but *continue doing,* often every day. At one point, we all consciously decided how much to eat and what to focus on when we got to the office, how often to have a drink or when to go for a jog. But then we stopped making a choice, and the behavior became automatic...this automatic behaviour which we do without thinking anything is basically called Habits ...
Throughout a day, we make a lot of choices, and each of these decision feels like a well-throughout decision.However, in reality, they are not. They are just our habits, and our brain constantly uses them to save effort.
Habits are very interesting; they can happen naturally or can be orchestrated by you or someone else. The majority of our habits dont require our permission.Our habits play a big part in our life more than we realize.
For example, if you are used to drinking coffee just after waking up. You would do that irrespective of you brushing your teeth or not. This is a clear example of how habit has more influence on you than even common sense....similary if you have the habit of checking your mobile , you will certainly do it without thinking of anything else ...
**THE POWER OF HABIT LOOPS:**
***3 ST****EPS TO STARTING (OR STOPPING) HABITS OF ANY KIND.*
To start a habit of any kind we must go through a habit loop which involve The process within our brains is a three-step loop.
*First, there is a cue, a trigger that tells your brain to go into automatic mode and which habit to use*.
*Then there is the routine,which can be physical or mental or emotional.*
*Finally, there is a reward, which helps your brain figure out if this particular loop is worth remembering for the future.*
In simple words If you want to create new habits of any kind, keep the following formula in mind:
**CUE + ROUTINE + REWARD = HABIT**
All the new habits , no matter of what kind it is ,always depend on this three-step loop:
**1. The cue**—a trigger for your brain that tells it which habit to use.
**2. The routine**—how a habit influences what you do, think, or feel.
**3. The reward**—which helps us determine how valuable the habit is, and whether it’s worth remembering or not....
So Now i will try to tell you guys about the effects of habits....
1 ...How Does Your Habit affect You ?
I guess Habit has great influence on our character ...Habits build our character: Character is nothing but a sum of all your habits and If you have good habits like waking up early, cleaning your room daily, working out, etc..
Your character is nothing but the difference between your good habits and your bad habits and If your good habits outweigh and outnumber your bad habits, your character is much better build than most people......Your Habit always leads to your character , so You have to work from the begining that is building good habits which will eventually lead you to a good positive character ....
2. **Habits can make or break your life :**
I think another effect of habit is on our decision making... Our entire day is filled with habits driven decisions. So, if you have a lot of good habits, you will make a good decision for yourself , your bussiness and all the things related to you ...Imagine, you have a test or some important work the next day, and you need to prepare for it. A good habit would be to prepare early and chill for the rest of the day.But if you procrastinate, you are vulnerable to unforeseen hurdles, which usually lies in an important task.
3. **Habit trigger happiness :**
Habits is directly related to happiness because our all our daily works depends on our habits ..if we have good habits , we must be happy throughout but if we have bad habits like being angry on every situation , it will leads us to depression ....similary if we have good habits , we will be able to make good decisions and eventualyy our work and everything will be fine and bring happines to us ..
On lighter note , our habits defines the destiny of our life ...all our works , daily life and all other things needs our good habit..if we have good habits , we will be eventually be happy and healthy .....
****Note : I have not discussed all aspects of habits in order to avoid any boring situation ....will looking for some addition from you guys in the comment section ...****
***Thank You ...***
©Rasguly
Arrival At Read.Cash : An Introductory Article ..
***Greeting To Everyone !***
Well ! This is my third post in read.cash , in this post i am gonna share with all of you about my personal life , about my academic life , about my hobby of writing , about what i can provide to this plateform ? But first of all i wanna tell you ,why i join @Read.Cash
So from the beginning i have the desire to write essays , articles , stories etc ..i used to write speeches for my fellows whenever we have a function in our school . I really like writing from the beginning because i believe that words are very powerful .They can make someone , They can break someone ,they can heal the soul of others.....from cildhood , i was fond of watching motivational videos , so i had a desire to motivate others because i believe that when someone smile because of you , and because of you ,he come back to his normal life and because of you someone didn't give up , that is the day when you live in real means .....so i decided from childhood that i will motivate others through my writings ....As social media is the demands of modern era , so i started to write in the social media plateforms like twitter initially but then i realize that people use social media for fun more than getting lessons from someone or get themselves motivated ....Then about Four months ago , i came to know about noise.cash ,and when i read rules of the plateform , i realize that this is the best plateform to write your ideas in because it gives people some amount of money so people will be interested in this plateform but later on i realize that u have to sum up all your ideas into an paragraph or so because people feel bore while reading long topic rather they prefer short paragraphs ....Then recently , i came to know about read.cash where we can share lengthy articles and expresses our ideas through our articles in simple and composed way , so i have joined read.cash to write the quality articles which may help somebody in real life ...
Who Am I ??
So , let's start with my name ,I am Hina Khan , the name which u guys can see in my profile is actually my nickname which is given to me by family as expression of their love . i live in Islamabad , Pakistan which is the capital city of pakistan ..I am the student of Class 12 and i am that kind of student which is highly ambitious and having big dreams for their future .It's yet the start of my academic career and i have to go to long way ,but i have set my goals and dreams from day 1, when i joined school, and this quality has come to me from my father who used to tell me from the beginning that i have to make my goals first thta what are my goals ? and then u have to follow your dreams with proper planning .....
***My Dreams /Goals :***
So My dream from the beginning is to become a doctor in future because i have seen doctors sacrifice their vacations and free time with families in order to save lives at hospital....I wanna become a doctor because i believe that I am the girl with empathy..I usualy don't get angry and try to understand why the people behave the way they do .... I always try to look things from teir point of view . This has helped me to understand the world better and i believe that it has made me a good human being . My father always says to become a good human being and more importantly a good doctor , one needs to have empathy and have lots of patience . I strongly believe that i have both these qualities .
I am an ambivert, which means I enjoy socialising with people once in a while and at the same time I also enjoy being alone, at the comfort of my own company. This nature of mine has helped me in my studies as well as free time. In case I find a subject to be difficult, I and my friends do group study and have fun while doing so. At times, when I prefer to be alone, I try to learn some new habit like reading a book or singing a song or gardening etc.
Another reason of becoming a doctor is that as i have spoke that i like to write something for the benefit of people , so a doctor heals someone's body by his experience and a writer or a motivational speaker heals someone's soul ....So i wanna heal both the body and soul of people and as u all know that doctor has a very noble profession and everyone respect doctors , so i want to become a doctor which will give me an opportunity to deal more with people , so i can easily talk to the people and heal both their body and soul .
My Habits :
I am a kind person by heart and I intentionally never try to hurt people, I am an empathetic person with no ego and attitude problems.I really like Gardening , i love to spend times with plants , also i also like to read books and i got myself very lucky that i have this quality bcz it polishes me into better version every day ...As far as sports are concern , I really Love football , i use to play football with my siblings , beside this i also like badminton and i am good player too in badminton ...But, like every human being, I too have some bad qualities. I usually get angry at my mother whenever she makes something which i don't like ,i usually bites my nails which is not a good habit at all and very unhealthy too . I am a hard worker and i try to get rid of my bad habits and i hope one day i will overcome all my bad habits baecause a human becomes more mature when he /she grows older ....
What You Will Find In My Articles ?
I already answered this question as i have already write everything about my life ..But still i wanna tell separately here that as i wanna be a medical student , so i will try to have talks on medical issues specially also i like writing and wanting to motivate others , so i will also discuss that topics which is related with daily life ...
**Thank You So Much For reading my introductory post ..I will be more than happy if i got some advice from you guys as i am still very young .....Thank You All**
Happiness is An Inside Job .
We all want to be happy – but what does that actually mean? And how can we get happiness? Some people related it with fame ? some related it with money ? Well, one thing is for sure – happiness does *not* exist outside of yourself, it’s not something you need to look in the world around your self , it's something that resides in your inner.
**Happiness is a personal thing**
Happiness is a personal thing – it has everything to do with you and nothing to do with others. The idea that we gain happiness from external things like a fab new car or **jewelary** or something shiny.
Well, that’s not true. Sure a person or new toy might make us feel good or excited but this feeling is short-lived. And it’s not happiness. This is excitement or joy. Which is nice, don’t get me wrong but a relationship or material items aren’t going to bring us happiness.Happiness comes from within us, from contentment with yourself. Happiness comes from how we feel within..
**Forget about pursuing happiness**
The concept of “the pursuit of happiness” tells us that happiness is out there somewhere to be found. So we need to look for it, and when we find it, then we will be happy.Under this idea, happiness is something we can find outside of ourselves – if we search hard enough. This puts a lot of pressure on ourselves to find this elusive happiness. And it might make people feel like they are failing at finding happiness because they don’t have something that they want like a house, ideal job or partner.
The pursuit of happiness concept feeds the idea that *if something happens*, then we will be happy.But do you know what? It never works – we might find some excitement or joy from achieving what we think will bring us happiness but it doesn’t last, it’s not true happiness.
So forget about pursuing happiness – it is not out there to be found. Happiness can come from within you so that’s where we need to focus – inside yourself.
**Your happiness is your responsibility**
We shouldn’t blame others for not making us happy. Happiness is your responsibility, alone. We each have to figure out how to take things that happen in life and make the best out of the situation. To look to the positive and to be happy.
To me, happiness is inner peace. It’s being content in each moment. It’s in embracing the moment we are in. Happiness is staying in the positive attitude .Happiness like positivity is there, moment by moment. Make the choice to look to the positive, stay in the present and to embrace that moment like you chose it.Sometimes things happen that aren’t nice things. We have to process them, learn and move on. Release, forgive and carry on with our lives.
It’s in this kind of living that we feel happiness. By being grateful for each moment that we have, we find happiness within. It’s not by being happy that we are grateful but it’s the other way around. When we are grateful for each moment and for what we have right now, that’s when we find happiness!
*Happiness is acceptance*
"**The happiest people in the world are those who feel absolutely terrific about themselves, and this is the natural outgrowth of accepting total responsibility for every part of their life". ~Brian Tracy**
I think real happiness comes when we accept ourselves the way you are . We should need to understand that there are things that are beyond our control.We must accept those things which we can't change ....We should Stop comparing ourself to others all the time.
“**Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not to who someone else is today”. Jordan Peterson said that**.
Channel your brain to make a better comparison in your long-term interest, growth, and happiness.Change the object of comparison to yourself.
***Happiness lives in the present moment***
If we are in the pursuit of happiness and searching for it, then we are skipping the moment we are in right now. This feeling robs us of enjoying the moment we are in because we are constantly on the lookout for something better, something that is going to make us happy. And we miss what’s happening now, we miss the opportunity to be happy, now!
By being grateful for what we have – right now and by staying present in the moment we are in, and loving ourselves for who we are, we find happiness within ourselves......
In the last , i wanna thanks to all of you for reading this so patiently , i hope u guys must have learn something from this ..
My Journey on Noise.Cash
As i am joining this plateform through noise.cash , so i wanna start with , how noiso.cash changes my life ...
So first i will start in photography sense , When i started in noise.cash , i soon realize that it demands quality content and quality pictures , so i start capturing more and more pictures ...i started to capture pictures of flowers , different plants , weather conditions and every thing that comes my way😁....My family members are very astonished by my this work , as i was not like that girl who capture pictures of everything ....My mother used to tell me that i should water the plants regularly and take care of it , but i don't like earlier to go the garde regularly and spending timw with plants , as i was unaware of happiness that flowers gives to us when we are near to them ......here i a sharing some picturea which i captured during my journey on noise.cash
Secondly , i wanna talk about the knowledge that i get through noise.cash....As there are many quality writters in noise.cash who share their creative ideas and creative posts with the community , so i learn alot from there .......some writters realized me that we should learn from our past , so it flashed back me to my past where i done lot of mistakes and i learned nothing from them ,but after that i analyze my past and learned some valuable lessons which i would never learn if i had not joined noise.cash .....Then i also read the stories of others which they shared and tried to learn from that as well ....it gives me alot of experience and now i have enough experience that i can handle any siutation.......
Then , another benefit that i got from noise.cash is discovering the beauty of nature ......as there are users from all over the world in noise cash , so everyone try to share the beautiful picture of their places , so i got an opportunity to see different places around the world taken as real , which i would never see anywhere else ...
Then , the most important and beneficial thing of noise cash is communication between peoples........As in this plateform , people communicate each other through their creative writing ,so i also communicate with many peoples around the globe .....Noise.cash gives me a lot of talented and kind-hearted friends which are always there to help me ....i think if i would not joined noise.cash , i would not meet those wonderful people out there ......
in last i would like to Thanks the admin of noise.cash and read.cash for providing us these wonderful plateforms where we can spread love and happiness by our words ........
Thank You...
@Rasguly
