Common mistakes singles make in a relationship

Double Dating

One of the acidic element in a relationship is double dating. Double dating introducees itself into relationship because of past experience, lack of trust, unfaithfulness and other reasons that are not cogent enough. Singles no longer trust in each other, they disbelieve their fiance and fiancee. Because of this obvious reason, they double date in case of any event of disappointment from their spouse, there is nothing wrong for you to be wise, not to lay your eggs in one basket but it will be a pity if the basket fell at the same time. How? If the girl or the guy got to know themselves, they might decide quit the relationship without notice. The result is that you have wasted your time; energy and fiance within this period and you might be considered a flirt. So I advise you to change your orientation or possibly stop it, because is ungodly, immoral and inhuman. It is not fair. Change! How will you feel if you discovered that your fiance is in courtship with another person. Change because what you do to other that is what God will do to you. The golden rule says, do to others what you want others to do into you.

Do not be decieved, whatever a man shows that is what he will reap. When you double date, you will surely crash. Even nature will repel you, if your life straight. There is nothing wrong if five people ask of your hand in marriage within the same season. What is wrong is, you accepting more than one person at the same time. Quit one now if you are guilty of the offence.

Overstaying in a relationship

Some singles overstay in a relationship just because of emotion, pity and fear, fear of who will marry me if I quit this existing relationship. Immediately you discovered that your relationship is not working out, quit. My friends, overstaying in a relationship can Mar your marital destiny. It has power to make you late in life.

One of the holy books, the Bible say " everything on Earth has time, time to be born and time to die, time to be single and time to be married". Whatever thing that does not have ultimatum cannot gather momentum. If your relationship does not have direction i.e goal oriented, but the only thing that is keeping you in the relationship is "Let us pray for God's time" i.e for manna to fall from heaven, my friend, you have stayed longer than expected, because every time is God's time, the manna is falling everyday. If that man or that lady is not your wife or your husband you will wait for this manna and it may not fall. I promise you, look at yourself, before you can say Jack Robeson you will be out of time. Be careful!

Recently I was discussing with a lady who was in 11 years relationship, a man promised to marry her when things get better, they both suffered together and reasoned together. This Lady did not know that this young man is a green snake under a green grass, pretending as if he loves her. This Lady was swimming in the river of ignorance for eleven years. It was after this elevnth year that this young man brought in his wife and thirteen years old boy to introduce them to the lady as his wife and son. The lady was shocked and she threatened to kill herself before people came to her rescue. Wow...what a mess!

Overstaying in a relationship because of fear if who will marry me if I quit, because of emotion, pity and love, feeling without a specific period for marriage can make you late and be out of time. Watch out for men and women of this generation.

If you cannot hear God's will, you should be able to read between lines. Those reasons why your marriage should be postponed, are they genuine? Read between lines you may be under great deception.

Competition

Competition is a direct struggle between two r group of persons pursuing the same goals at the same time one the same platform. Competition in a relationship has to do with more than one ladies dating one guy with a sense of settling down withe guy or more than one men dating one lady for the same purpose.

Our singles of these days are fond of making such critical mistakes just because of ignorance, some of them think this Lady or guy will be the person for them and will be threatening to harm anybody who attempted to take away their God given Angels or even harm themselves. If you kill or harm yourself because of a guy or a lady, you will miss a million of guys and ladies. So it will be stupid, Carlos and reckless for you to have such evil mind that has power to undermine your marital destiny. Don't think that way because for the fact that one way ends does not mean another one will not begin or open. If you find yourself in such a mess, caution yourself and quit the relationship. If not, you will end up wasting your time. You must be careful.

In my subsequent articles, I will try to point out more of these common mistakes singles of these generation make in relationship, especially during courtship. So let's just all this part one. You can subscribe to get my next articles in your notification.

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