You have to let go the idea of perfection. You need to stop comparing your life with someone else. Clear your thoughts and get it together.
Allow yourself to be flawed. No one is perfect, keep that in mind. How much of your confidence have been damaged just because you're seeing someone else is doing better?
You are seeing what you are allowed to, you are not in their shoes so you never knew.
Start to focus on yourself. Recognize your own potential, have faith in your goddamn self. Show the world who you are, not how someone else present you or treat you.
Stop worrying about what others think about you. Stop allowing negativity to surround your soul. Do not let the bad stop you from discovering the good.
You need to look for the light in the dark.
It's never to late to reinvent yourself.
Choose aliveness and live your life on your own terms. All the things you desire are within reach so go after it. Slow down and take it all in.
Trust me you can do it.
Your flaws doesn't define you, it's just a part of you. You are more than that. Find your own wings, your own fire. Radiate, give love to yourself, and to the whole world. Love will come back to you.
What we don't understand is that the person we might be comparing ourselves with might have a lot of flaws on the inside, might be going through one difficulty or the other. But we just see the outer view and start comparing. Nobody is perfect our mistakes makes us who we are, it's a clear sign that we are humans we just have to learn from them