Yes come to think of it, a lot of people have believed in their hearts and have taken it as a norm to always hope on someone to grow, either their parents, family, friends, relatives, etc and because of that, they refuse to make any effort to help themselves grow to that height they were destined to attend.
like we all know, the sparrows in the forest are birds in their special form and uniqueness, they attend to their needs by themselves, they grow and do everything by themselves, likewise other animals in the forest, each sparrow develops itself and try all means to fight, stay alive to survive the harsh conditions and environment where different kinds of predators hover around in search of them to feed on.
How well do you strive to grow by yourself?
Are you that type of person that will always wait to be pushed to the next phase of life?
Do you believe in the strength of another to stand tall and be a winner?
Or do you believe you can achieve your dreams by waiting for someone to help you step into your dreams, ambitions and aspirations and turn it to a reality?
Personal growth has been the best step towards achieving that height one ever hopes for. Finding those things that will always add value to your life and pursing it to finish is the best way to achieve success.
A lot of successful personalities around the world we know about today in the history of mankind accepted that self-well to grow themselves starting from mental, physical, emotional and financial growth, then the recognitions, accolades and different merits of awards of honour been attached to these people today are as a result of that bold steps they took in allowing themselves to accept growth and allow themselves to pass through the process needed.
There are factors that plays major role in facilitating that self-growth and if one wants to make a positive or negative change in life, they must surely depend on these factors.
DECISION
When a child is born, the willingness of the child to move from sitting down to crawling stage and from crawling stage to the stage of standing up and making a step forward is totally in the hands of the child to decide. A child makes the decision to try standing up by looking for a seat or chair to hold unto in other to support himself or herself to stand. Decision making is one first step towards having a positive or negative growth in life. To achieve success in life and reach that level of aspirations you have dreamt about, the decision to follow your dreams is one step in the right direction.
DETERMINATION
Often time one finds it very difficult to really propel that zeal to achieving success in life, maybe because of fear, pressures coming from the circle of people around, or because of unseen challenges, etc. For one to have a successful self-growth in life, the need to have a decisive mindset towards self development is another step one needs to have and follow.
FOCUS
Having focus to pursue those things that will help you be that person you have dreamt of and desired to is surely a right path to take. Most reasons why people fail to grab the opportunity to develop themselves when it comes their way, is because they lack that ability to focus on those things that will help them build their selves positively, in otherwords, they lack concentration to those things that will help them grow and when they finally come to self realization, it will be too late to make corrections.
STRONG-WELL
This can also be called strong-drive. Yes it's so important that one must have this strong well to choose and to accept growth and give deaf ears to those things that will undermine his or her ability to succeed and push himself to grow. Most successful men and women today had several challenges on their way and some had several failures but they never allowed it to change their direction but instead, they added more well and energy until they finally made their dreams come true.
In conclusion, always make sure you do your best to develop yourself anywhere you find yourself, never allow your mind to confuse you into believing you can't grow yourself alone, the road to success starts when you accept to make yourself available to that process that will propel you to a success and that is by accepting self-growth.
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