I have heard so many ladies say this in an open discussion with their friends countless times and when such is said a lot of people begin to argue about it. At times some have misunderstanding and end up not really having a conclusive answer towards the statement being raised.
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Well I will me start by letting us know that most of us always have this in our hearts that money can solve almost everything most especially in our relationships. Sometimes we give our energy and believe to money to help us settle our issues with our spouses. We pay less attention to those things that does not require money which we can do on our own to our spouses to make them feel belonged and important in the relationship.
Most men believe that one can get a woman to love them simply by giving them money at anytime they need it, some even believe in that saying that "money answers all things" so they don't need to worry themselves over your present state of mind and how you are feeling emotionally, they believe with their money you can always find happiness when you are down or having emotional issues or even bad moments.
Now let me tell you this, have you ever wondered why most women that are in a relationship with their rich guys even in their financial status still find it very difficult to be happy and at times they see that person that gives them Time and Attention as a source of their happiness.
ATTENTION
Most women if not all of them wants more attention to be given to them by their spouses. When a woman is given a listening ear when ever she is sharing Information with you, even if what she is discussing seem not interesting to you but once you keep listening to it and continue to give her all the necessary attention she deserves from you at that moment, then you are making a head way to winning her heart. Most women are so emotional and so soft at heart that if you neglect them during discussions, you may end up starting a quarrel that might end in sadness and regrets. Generally women need our attention.
TIME
most of the problems that affect many relationships amongst couples are inability to bring out time for their spouses. Women need our time more than anything money can offer. When a man gives his spouse plenty of time and affection, the woman in question will end up falling more deep in love with him.
Mind you I am talking out of personal experience, the happiness of a woman comes from within not from what your money can do, your personal attitude and the way you make her feel each time you are with her matters most when you are in a relationship with her.
My little experience with my spouse has really made me to understand that money does not guarantee total happiness to a woman. Yes, in as much as we the men need money to lighten up our woman's heart and also our relationship and make the relationship flow smoothly but at the same time, we need to put more energy to the things that will not cost us a thing in making our spouse happy and always eager to keep loving us.
I did little research online to know what some scholars said about money and how it can't provide complete happiness to your spouse in your relationship.
According to Vera Caspary in her quote about money she said that Money can be more of a barrier between people than language or race or religion. Source
Also according to Margaret Walker in his quote she said friends and good manners will carry you where money won’t go. Source
According to President Franklin D. Roosevelt in his quote he also said that happiness is not in the mere possession of money; it lies in the joy of achievement, in the thrill of creative effort. Source
Judging from these quotes from these amazing personalities, you will agree with me that money does not make women happy completely in a relationship and it's of important that we start in time to find those things that we must do to bring out that spark of love and affection from our spouses which may not necessarily be money.
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Bro a thing is that not everything is perfect for everyone. In this world you can find out only 30% girls or women who will be happy with their husband though her husband has less income but 50% women will go for rich one who can provide them everything . Especially this trend available on educated women. Anyway, the situation is different so no comment about it will work. Some girls want husbands time but some want money while some want none of this.