The things we do to make our relationship stronger.

Hello everyone, today is going to be a great day for us all and I believe you are ready for my today's discussion about love and relationships.

Well, Let's talk about the things we need to do to make our relationship stronger. I know that we all have come to the age of maturity and to the stage of understanding what love and relationships is all about. It will not be out of place if I try to enlighten us today about the need to work effectively and efficiently together with your spouse to make your relationship survive as you journey together in love as married couples and as people who are in a relationship that may lead to something so beautiful in future.

You may have seen or heard where someone may be wondering and complaining why they do not have a long lasting relationship with their spouses or anybody that come into their life to build a relationship with them, these reasons that may contribute to these relationship failures might not be far fetched from these examples; attitudinal behaviour of the individuals in the relationship, personal stringent and rigid rules and regulations been put by the two persons who are seeking for a relationship from each other, character differences, different religion and belief standards, etc.

You hear such complain maybe coming from a lady or from a young man when you come to them for discussion, some may even tell you that they have been having series of breakups with any person that comes into their life within a short period of time of their getting to know each other and because of that, they are afraid that the next person coming into their life for a relationship may also disappoint them someday even after having sex and getting what they are looking for from them, they still end up leaving the relationship.

These and many more reasons might be worries and disturbances the hearts of these people who are affected with these kind of situations are passing through and these make them to be so afraid of the future.

Now my good friend, let me tell you one important secret you may have not known which might be a helping tool for you to have a wonderful and stable relationship with your spouse. In any relationship you may want to start with any person, you have to understand that you too are two different persons with different understandings and purposes, but by accepting to start a relationship with each other, simply means that your individual rules and regulations, beliefs, standards, etc should not be focused upon or stand as an existing model or guideline for you to follow in building your relationship with your spouse, in otherwords, you are not to be seen putting your own dictates as the best option to follow when you are in a relationship with your spouse.

This is one very big mistake that most people have not actually noticed that could be the problem why they don't have a lasting relationship with any person that come their way, if you have had five failed relationships in just one year, instead of you to ask yourself what could be the problem why you don't have a stable relationship, you start accusing people that came and left your life within a short period as being the cause of your unstable relationship, instead of checking yourself to know if you were the reason why they are leaving you. But if you truly tell yourself the truth, you will understand that some of these problems could be your fault, and if only you could think deep and try to adjust some rules, lifestyles and personal policies you made for yourself which are not going well with you and the next person coming in for a relationship with you, maybe then you can start having a long lasting relationship with that person you desire so much as your life partner.

For two persons to have a long lasting relationship and love, they should always make room for unanimous decision and agreement in anything they want to do, proper communication at all times should be the way and not letting anything come in between you and your spouse no matter the situation.

When two persons are ready and are in a relationship, there should be no fixed rule and policies by any one who wants to enjoy, have a healthy and lasting relationship with his or her spouse.

I know you will learn something new from me  today so you can have an awesome and wonderful long lasting relationship with that person you so much desire in your life.

Thanks and have a great day. Rafd9828.