The negative effect of love.

I want to start this article with the opposite of what you are expecting to hear from me. I know you will be expecting that I tell you stories about love and how sweet love is and all other stories that comes with. Well, I will burst your bubbles right now with the twist of the story.

You already know that love is a beautiful thing and can make one experience butterflies and all the good things that comes with it. The magical feelings that comes with the feeling of love and affection shared by the two love birds are so unquantifiable and so immeasurable.

But has it occurred to you that the power of love can put one to a place of no ruin?

Have you ever thought that this thing called love can be able to make one lose control of him or herself and do things that will give you goose bumps when you hear the stories?.

Most people have made themselves available to be led by the negative effect of love and what it can do and even cause them to change their destinies and futures all because they allowed themselves to be carried away by the negative effect of love.

Haven't you heard that to love someone you really have to open your eyes and also your mind to know what is going on with you as you put your head to love that person that is so dear to your heart. You have to take things easy and be very careful with it to avoid causing yourself more harm than good when you are In-love with your spouse.

Most people have lost their lives and even lost the most precious thing in their lives all because they were intoxicated with the power of love. Some have lost their loved ones, families and even their own personal sound due to what the power of love can do. You find yourself in a relationship and instead of you to take control of your feelings and emotions while in love with your partner, instead you allow yourself to be led by the power of love. When such happens, the result you always see is suicidal.

You hear stories of how people take their lives, destroy their properties and even cause havoc to that person they were once in love with all because of the way they allowed their mind and emotions to be taken away by the negative effect of love and the negative feelings it comes with to cloud their sense of reasoning not to take control and be in charge of their actions and behaviours.

I was a victim of such circumstances during my past relationship, the girl I was dating back then was so engulfed with love all over me, at first I was enjoying the treats, the feelings of love, affections and romance I was getting from her, Infact you could feel the energy when you come close to us, the feeling of love was so intense that we are not able to dictate any body's mistakes and excesses. A day came we had little argument that didn't end well, gradually the beautiful warm feeling of love, romance and affection we once shared together started turning into an iced blocks of water and before we could understand what was going on, it went out of hand and she immediately lost her control and things went bizarre and shattered.

One of the days she came to my house and destroyed my television and almost fought me. I was so confused and lost in deep thought over what was happening to the once cherished romance we had with each other that most people around us loved and wished they were in our shoes, the place we once had sweet experience and beautiful memories suddenly turned into an arena of gladiators.

Because of love she had for me, she was so hurt that she tried to do something that will hurt and pain my heart. She didn't care what her actions could result at the end of the day, she turned instantly the affection she had for me into a serious hatred.

So you see why most people fall in such situation, when you allow your heart to be taken away by the negative effect of power of love you feel for your partner, you will surely end up in regrets and ruins. This does not happen only to lovers and people in marriage relationships, it cut across other types of relationship we have today in our society today.

You see such cases in some of our parent attitudes toward their children. In a family where a mother gives her child that excess love, care and attention, when that child starts to misbehave and do certain things that are not acceptable by norms and right morals standards, the mother gets so mad and disappointed over that child's action because,  she loved her and never believed her child could act in such manner, most cases the mother's treatment towards her child afterwards comes with sadness, anger and very bittered feelings to her child due to the way the child behaved.

When one mistakenly allow himself to be overwhelmed by the negative effect of love in his relationship with people in his life, the end product may usually not pleasing to that person you are in the relationship with. The negative effect of love is real and happens to people in their different relationships, so my dear always do your best to take control of your feelings and don't let it spoil that experience you have shared with your loved ones.

Thanks and remain resolute. Rafd9828.