Oh! she is so temperamental, but I really do love her.

"I have not been myself ever since I got to notice that the woman I so much have strong feelings and affections for has temperamental issues, and I don't want to lose her because she complements me in full and I love her so much, what do I do my friend?".

This was the complaint I made to my friend as we were having our discussion at his place, it was a serious issue for me to handle as I have never experienced such kind of personality with such attitude in my years of dating and being in a  relationship.

Because I really love her so much and I want to be part of her and ready to do anything to change her into becoming a better person in our relationship, I went to my trusted friend to seek advice and assistance on what to do to make things right between us.

My friend having heard what I said concerning my partner's temperamental issue, he advised me to never let her go if I truly love her, he said that temperamental persons are special kind of people with great potentials and gift. In fact he said that those characters they possess are special kind of gift which they carry that helps them to protect themselves against any kind of danger or intimidation from anybody that they feel or see as a threat to their life or environ.

The only disadvantage about their kind is that they don't know how to control such gift even when it comes to people they care about and love so much.

But people with such character can be loved, cared for and even find a way to learn how to live with them if you are sure you love them and want to help them to control their temperament to become more better.

According to my friend he said if I must learn how to live with my partner who has temperamental issue, There are steps I must learn and follow to live happily after with her if I insist that I want to spend the rest of my life with her as my wife.

These steps are as follows;

SHOW HER MATURITY

A temperamental companion will constantly frustrate you, but your experience and exposure to life's hardships will be the guiding forces. Because you are aware of your partner's temperamental tendencies, you should not do the same. To deal with such issues in a relationship, you must be strong and very mature in all level of your relationship with your spouse.

RESPECT HER, DO NOT ARGUE

Respect her for who she is, and you will be surprised at how much she will return your respect since you are aware of her flaws and weaknesses, yet you manage her with care. She may not always give you what you want right away, but she will eventually arrive to see to it. When it comes to arguments or misunderstandings, give a temperamental partner room; you can't win when dealing with a temperamental person, but you can change and win them over; it's a gradual process.

SURPRISE HER

As a temperamental partner, there is no one who does not enjoy surprises. Instead of disputing with her, tell her she is correct and go on, even though you know she is incorrect.
After a few days, present proof to prove the outcome of the argument and to prove her wrong. Do this in a romantic manner, preferably while she is in a good mood. Temperamental people are human and can reason well; it's only in their nature to be angry, and the majority of them do not enjoy their acts and feel terrible for themselves after they have done wrong.

SHOW HER TRUE LOVE

The degree to which you love your partner impacts how strongly you desire positive change in their lives. Be kind to her despite her defects, love her despite their flaws, adore her at all costs, and forgive her for herr wrongs since she aren't the ones doing the things you think she does, she is feeble minded.

BE PATIENCE WITH HER

If she come in hot, don't take it hot; since you're the one who's going to make the change, you'll have to cool down till you reach a positive result in changing her. Your patience will not speak for you right now because you are still dealing with her, but you will gradually see the results, which may take years. You must take your time to change a temperamental companion, whether you are married or still in a relationship.

ALWAYS STAY SILENT

Keeping silence during an argument is a sensible method to deal with when you find yourself in such situation. One secret about a temperamental persons is that they dislike it when you dispute with them or get angry with them. Another thing a temperamental person dislikes is being defeated.

To deal with such a person, you must play along and do the opposite of what he or she prefers. The best course of action is to remain silent. No matter how she respond, speak, insult, or damage you, try to remain calm and silent as much as possible.

HAVE A GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS WITH HER

You may easily help your partner realize concerns that may cause tension in a relationship if you have good communication skills with her. A good communication skill is the ability to exchange words without causing misunderstanding. True, arguments are unavoidable in a relationship, but with the correct communication skills, you can easily handle and calm a temperamental spouse with kind and loving words.

LEARN TO UNDERSTAND HER

Knowing her temperament in a relationship will help you grasp what she is capable of. Make her to realize that she is mistaken. To deal with a temperament partner, use solid communication skills to convince her to understand who is at fault. You should not push her to comprehend your point of view, but you may manage her with gentle words.

ALWAYS PRAY FOR HER

Prayer is still the most powerful technique for dealing with problems in your relationship in everything, every obstacle, and every problem. Continue to pray for your relationship, and ask God for wisdom and patience to help and change the person you love.

BE HOPEFUL

As you do all of these things to deal with temperament, remain hopeful for a positive change, do not deviate from altering a temperamental spouse; your sacrifice may be worth it in the end; and do it with honour, respect, and love.

Temperamental people are kind and caring, all you need are the correct tools to deal with a temperamental relationship. Remember that this can also be found in both gender so therefore, you have to find the one that works for you and stay in that path in order to live happily with your spouse in your relationships.

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