Love can catch you anywhere any time.

It's never a sin for one to go out from where he or she is to find love elsewhere. It's not out of place to leave your group, your association, or your folks to connect your heart and love with another person in another place. When it involves love, it knows no bound and has no definite route.

That you have so many pretty, beautiful young ladies and handsome gentlemen in your group where you belong to and contribute your own quota, does not mean that you are mandated and obligated to find love from that place. Most times, people have misconceptions about love and how love connects with people. Some people have this understanding that it's not right for you to leave your association or your groups and look out for love else where. For instance, where I worship on sundays, I belong to a choir group in my church as a Catholic and after Sunday mass, I had a little discussion with a lady friend of mine while we were heading back home, she complained that it was not funny and proper to see young men and ladies who happen to be in the same group leaving their members to marry outside their group, that she feels it's not a good thing, after being together and almost seeing each other on a weekly bases whenever the meeting days are fixed, with all the handsome and beautiful ladies and men in the group, yet it's so not easy to see these people marry each other at the end of the day, instead they find it easy to look outside the group to find love and even get married as well. She said that she has taken time to do a study on this particular issue to different groups both in the church and outside church groups. After she finished saying what she observed from these different groups she has taken time to research and study, I decided to share with her these reasons which I am about to tell you today that could change her understanding and also change some of you that share the same opinions, thought, believe and ideas with her.

When it comes to love, it does not matter where you are, where you belong to, who you are or what you are doing at that moment, when love wants to connect, it goes beyond your understanding and what your eyes can see, this particular statement people always say when it comes to love should always help you to remember that falling in love does not have any particular direction because as they say "Love is blind".

That you are in a group where beautiful ladies and handsome gentlemen are filled with and you left them to get love else where does not mean that they are not good enough to be loved and start a relationship with, what it means that your love did not find any person to love and connect with in the group. You can not because you are in the same group with someone that your heart didn't match with, you still force yourself to marry from there all because you are in the same group with them. That move is not a healthy one if you choose to follow it and can be disastrous if you tread in that path.

We are talking about love, companion and lifetime partnership and being in a group is not enough to throw away that fact.

Marriage and love affection is beyond group stuff, is beyond associations and any other group you may belong to, we are talking about feelings and that feeling must be mutual, strong for you to take the next step with the person. Although you may see some people in a group dating and even having fling with each other and at the end of the whole day, some may end up in marriage and some may not, it happens and it's not a reason to conclude that everyone who finds himself or herself in a group should end up as a couple.

You can be in France and find love in America, you can fall in love with someone who is short when you are so tall, and same way you can be a black person and fall in love with a white person. Remember, to fall in love does not cut bridges. How love connects is a mystery that only the creator can rightly explain how it happens.

So my friend, don't feel it's very absurd when you see things happen in such ways. It's not anybody's making or control. If you are opportuned to find love where you are, my dear be happy, if you also find love elsewhere also be happy and cherish your love and all the moments it comes with.

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