Life can get boring after being married for a long time.

The life one experience during marriage is something one should be worried about and never take for granted, the moment both parties come together in marriage to live as one body in love and togetherness, the period of child bearing, training of children and taking care of the home and making sure everything in the family goes well may take your whole time and life and make you forget to take good care of your own personal life and also prevent you from catching your own fun even with your partner.

You may find it so difficult to handle and comprehend when you enter a marriage relationship with your partner without having a serious and proper plans on how to go about with your own personal life and that of your  family responsibilities and challenges when children starts coming into your love lives with your partner in future. This particular issue affects both parties in the marriage relationship.

For instance, when the role and daily routine duties of a woman in marriage relationship are to wake up early, prepare breakfast for the family, make sure that the children gets up from bed, helps them take their bath and prepare them for school, at times takes them for early morning school runs to catch their school bus that comes to pick their children to school,  goes back to the house to clean up the house and prepare herself to go out for the day's activities, during the time she goes out for her day's activities, when time to pick the children from school approaches, she runs back to pick the children from the school bus dropping point back to the house and give them their lunch, stays with them, helps them to solve their take home assignments their teachers gave them at school till evening when she will prepare dinner for the whole family to eat, and at night she prepares the children for sleep, read bed time stories to them until they go to sleep. After doing all these routine duties each passing day of her marriage life, The effect of these may throw her mind away from trying to find new experiences and ideas that can ignite fun and love back in her mind, in her love life with her husband if care is not taken, all her attention is channelled to her children and the home. This eventually can bring boredom, lack of affection and love passion, loss of sweet taste of love feelings and love memories in the mind of this woman faced with this type of life situation.

Coming to the man of the house, when his daily routine duties are to go out every morning weather rain or sunshine to work and look for money so the family can eat and have all the best of life money can get. He barely remembers to think more about his love life and feeling with his wife, all he can think of is to make money so that the bills in the house can be taken care off. When he gets back from work at night, he gets so tired and have little time to check up on the children and the wife he left at home to go to work in the morning, after spending little or no time with the family, he goes back to his room, have his shower and sleeps off due to tiredness. The next day he repeats same routine without knowing it, after a while, you see the man getting attached more to the routine duties and his responsibilities to his family and forgetting to find a way to ignite his love life with his wife and trying to explore new ideas and experiences that can bring back beautiful memories, love and affections to their marriage, and if care is not taken, he begins to feel bored, tired and lose the love, affection taste and the purpose of being together.

Other factors that can contribute boredom after being married for a long time maybe, family issues, misunderstanding, constant quarrel and fighting, inability of the both parties to find ways to handle issues and challenges when they come knocking at their doorstep, inability of both parties to forgive each other when being offended and not being able to explore new ideas and experiences that can lighten up their marriage relationships, feelings and love.

It's very important that you come together as two persons who promised each other of undying, unconditional love and togetherness to find a way to make the love you have for each other in your marriage not to die because of family issues, child bearing or other challenges that may arise during the period of your marriage life.

It's also important that you(couples) make out time to go for vacations, create time for yourself more and try to build your cracked walls of love due to family issues on time to avoid loss of interest in the things that makes your marriage strong.

And finally find a way around your challenges to always uphold each other's love and affection so high above your worries and challenges in your marriage life. And if you can be able to do some of these things I mentioned as a solution to having a fun-filled life in your marriages, surely you will never ever feel bored in your marriage lives for a long period of time.

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