I will do anything for love. Except that. And that. Or that. Or...

Let's talk about something important today, I know many of you who have found themselves in the web of love with their love partners and will possibly want to do anything and everything just to please the one they love, they will go extra mile to fetch whatever they feel that can make their spouse happy and comfortable. In this condition of mindset and energy of love moving around in their hearts, they can go out of their way  to virtually step on people's toes just to make sure that they prove their love to their loved ones.

To some that misunderstand and misinterpret the actual meaning of love and what true sacrifice in love stands for may try to sacrifice everything and even their lives just to prove to their loved ones that they understand what it means to love which is sacrifice and pain. Which in the other way round, they have missed the right track of showing true love to their partners and also failed to interpret a true process of love through their actions to achieve a successful love relationship in their lives.

It's important that we tell ourselves and our consciences the right truth and stand in that light of truth during any love relationship we may find ourselves in life, what am I trying to say?. Yes, to be very Frank with you my dearest friend reading this article right now, there are things you can't possibly do for your spouse/ partner even when they plead with you or even coax you into accepting their request. There are things you don't actually accept from your partner when they tell you to help them do it for the sake of love, there are things you need to use your senses to handle which may cause problem in future in your relationship if you accept to obey your partner's demands or request.

I will use this particular story to explain to you more about this topic I am discussing today.

A certain woman who married a rich man and her husband was a very influential man in the society, this woman in question was a federal government worker (civil servant), it happened that they needed to refurbish their setting room ofostry chairs, she carried all the chairs to the furniture maker and they bargained price, the price she was bargaining for was not up to what the materials needed for the job were costing in the market and the workmanship charge inclusive. The furniture maker pleaded with her to make the money #250,000 Nigerian money, but the woman insisted that she will give #150,000 Nigerian money. As she was about leaving, the furniture maker asked her to bring the #150,000 but pleaded with her that if he goes to the market and the prices of material changes, that she will still balance him with some money, she just nodded her head and said to the furniture maker, I have settled with you on the price and in two weeks I will be coming to carry my seats from your workshop. immediately, She drove off with her security men.

When the furniture maker went to the market and saw that the prices of material has changed and everything so costly, he was confused and didn't know what to do, he tried calling his client to inform her about the latest developments, but she refused picking her calls, when the time she gave the furniture maker reached, she came to the man's workshop and saw that the seats were still not touched, there she became angry and asked the furniture maker why her ofostry chairs are not yet ready?, the furniture maker replied her and said, the money you gave me was not enough and I have been calling you so I can Inform you about the latest development concerning the price of the materials in the market.

Because the woman was so influential and has connection, she left in anger and told the furniture maker that she is giving him an extra 5days to finish the job she paid her for and if he fails, that she will deal with him. When she left the furniture maker's workshop, she went straight to her husband and reported the matter to him. She asked her husband to make sure he deal with the furniture man for disappointing her, In fact, she personally told the husband that she would want to see the man spend some months in prison if after 5days he didn't finish the job she gave him.

When the husband heard all she said, the husband accepted, and said he will do as she said. The next day the man drove his car with his security men and paid the furniture maker a visit to know what happened. After hearing from the furniture maker's side of the story, he understood the man's plight and had pity on him, he went inside his car and brought out another #250,000 Nigerian money from his purse and gave to the furniture maker to use and finish the work the wife gave him, he instructed the furniture maker not to tell his wife that he gave him money to complete the work, and also asked him to make sure that he finishes the work before the time the wife gave him.

When the man went back home, the wife asked him what happened, he said the furniture maker is doing the job and will finish the work with the amount they agreed on.

Now do you actually understand the story I just told you now? I tell you from the story I just narrated above, you will agree with me that, you may be so much in love with your partner, but it's not an ideal that you should surely do what ever your partner wants you to do. In as much as you are in love with your partner, you should also be with your senses and make use of them wisely and maturely. Don't take any rush decision just because your partner wants you to.

When you walk in love with your partner, always give room for self examination of thought, words, request, etc from your partner before you act. And finally, learn to handle every situation in your relationship with a mature mind and always try to make the right choice and decisions whenever you are faced with such situation.

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