Don’t mind me while I drink my tea

I just want to start today with a topic that really sound awkward but really passes a message of great value to you and I.

Yes "don't mind me while I drink my tea" was the comment I heard my boss in the office said to his secretary as I was coming to tender my morning report in his office. After I left his office, I went back to my desk and began to read meaning to the comment my boss made to his secretary. And something came to my mind and that is what I want to share with you today.

Most times we see a lot of people that put their eyes and mind to things that does not concern them, or relate to them in any way, maybe because you feel you are in the position to speak or comment to a particular issues, or you have access and the opportunity to be where things are happening and you feel you have the right to concern yourself to such issues or matters.

Why a lot of people find themselves in bad situations that they never thought they would be  at times, maybe because they pried in affairs that does not concern them, they involve themselves, families to issues that never matters to them but others, and when such issues escalate to serious problems, it will affect them and their families.

You could also experience such case at your work places, amongst friends and folks, it's  some people like to concern themselves to things that were meant for others, they don't like minding theirs own businesses, they feel they have right to say things to you any time they feel like, they don't want to know if what they are saying or their presence and contributions are needed at that particular moment, they just take decision and invite themselves to matters that didn't concern them.

At times people with this kind of lifestyle that try to put their mouth to any issue that concerns others which comes their way, they like to make their own contributions and statements count in your life and thereby making your own words and contributions less important. They make every effort to find fault in the way you talk, it extends to the way you eat, dress, even to the way you do things, they will like to take control of all your matters and dictates for you.

It's does not cost you anything to mind your own business and concentrate to issues that concerns you, it will not kill you if you try to stay in your own lane and focus on your own personal challenges and troubles. Why should you give your whole energy to things that does not concern you? Why should you feel it's your right to dictate what happens in another person's life? Why should you try to control another's pattern of living and running his or her family, business and programs?

Learning how to focus your energy and mind to issues that concerns you is another way of living a healthy life that can bring progress and success to you if you follow the path diligently.

You may try to focus your energy to other person's issues and you end up running out of control with your own problems. Minding your own business can create effective productivity to any establishment you find yourself. In as much as it's good to be your brother's keeper, It's also encouraged and advised that you don't allow yourself to take control of another person's life, mode of living and way of doing things.

Learn to channel every energy you have to living your own life and destiny, you can only advice when necessary but you can't enforce your own decisions to that person sitting next to you.

I may be correct or not with the answers I got from the deep thought I had over the statement my boss made today, but what ever be your own understanding to his statement, let's try to mind our business in anything we do in life. Don't pry in another person's life or way of doing things.

Live your own life, stay positive and focused .

Have a great day, from Rafd9828....