Do not neglect the first signs!

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DO NOT NEGLECT THE FIRST SIGNS

This topic I am discussing right now have been my observations  and can as well be your own experience and signs we usually see in our day to day life experiences and activities, most especially in relationships, marriages and even in friendships we keep with one another.

During the period you find yourself in a  relationship with your spouse, and you have the intention of taking the relationship to the next level which may be marriage, intimate relationships or any other type of level of relationship you prefer to move into with your partner, there are some signs you need not to neglect before taking the decision to step up the relationship to the next level.

Those signs may come from attitudinal behaviour been displayed by your partner in a relationship which may push you to take the relationship to the next level. These signs maybe displayed by both parties involved in a relationship and it's important that one should always take keen interest and attention to these signs before accepting to step up relationship with that person in his or her life.

These signs may come in positive or negative forms. The positive signs are acceptable and I will not be dwelling on that in this article but rather, I will be discussing the negative signs that one should be very careful with before stepping up to the next level with your spouse.

Most times some people try to overlook some attitudes and lifestyle that are not suitable to them which comes from their spouse and as they go on in the relationship they hope that in time to come their spouse may change from that ill attitudes or lifestyles they live which do not go well with them. But I tell you these, they may end up not changing from that type of lifestyle when you finally end up with them and this may become a problem in future for the relationship to succeed.

THE FIRST SIGNS YOU SHOULDN'T NEGLECT BEFORE ACCEPTING TO TAKE THE RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR SPOUSE TO THE NEXT LEVEL.

Violent partner:

This is one of the first signs you shouldn't neglect when you want to step up your relationship to the next level. If he or she is so temperament and violent in nature and you know it's not what you can deal with as a partner during relationship, it's adviced that you take a bold decision and leave the relationship before it gets worst. Most people have fallen victim of sexual harrassment, abuse and assault of different kinds in their relationships and marriages because they neglected first sign when they first met their partner, noticed their spouse hot tempered attitudes and kept hoping that one day he or she will change to a better person after marriage and eventually the result they finally get becomes disaster in future.

Loving your spouse based on convenience:

when you are in a relationship and he or she shows you love whenever they have time, in otherwords, he or she does not prioritise you in your relationship, he or she only call you or want to know how you feel when he or she is back from work or when he or she has finished attending to every other business of the day before you can be attended to. When you see such sign in your relationship, it's advised that you discuss it with him or her and if nothing is done immediately, you are advised to leave the relationship because if you continue and take the relationship to the next level, you will be surprised that you will be looking for attention and you will not get it from your partner.

Liars:

When your spouse starts to Lie to you in everything he or she says to you, when he or she tells you lies to cover their tracks or play smart on you from the begining of your relationship with him or her, it's very enough to know that the relationship will end up in disaster. This is one of the signs you should not neglect before stepping up your relationship with your spouse.

Nagging Partner:

This is also very important to look for as signs you should not neglect in your relationship, when everything you say or do must cause problems between you and your spouse, he or she must pick fight and quarrel in every little thing you do or say. When you are in relationship that does not encourage good communication and discussion with your partner anytime you want to have one, It's very important that you observe such character and if you can't cope with it, please leave the relationship because if you continue with the relationship, I bet you my friend that you will not enjoy your new relationship you may enter into in future.

Selfish partner:

Most of people in relationship are so selfish in nature, they want something from you but can't give you in return. This is one hell of a first sign you shouldn't neglect during relationship before stepping up to the next level. When your spouse thinks just about himself or herself only in a relationship that is meant for the two persons, please it's important that you take proper check about it and do the needful by calling him or her to order and when nothing is done before you step up, please leave the relationship as quickly as possible.

Partner that don't accept correction:

If you find yourself in a relationship that your partner can not accept that he or she made mistakes and take corrections when necessary, please it's advisable that you find your way out of the relationship, you can not afford to risk it to the next level of your life with that kind of person.

Sex:

Most couples have faced problems and challenges in their marriages because they neglected this particular sign during their courtship. You know the most important aspect of relationship is companionship and sex plays major role, When your partner is not good in bed and you don't find way to remedy the situation so that you can be able to enjoy your relationship when you step up to the next level with your spouse, when you eventually gets into that stage you will start to regret and cheat on your partner because he or she can not satisfy you sexually.

In conclusion,

Most people have been in this situation which they don't know how to get out of it because they failed to read the signs and take some decisions that would help them in their lives. It's always advisable to make sure you go for that first signs you may notice in your early stage in relationship so that you can be able to make correction and put things in place where you will enjoy your next level of relationship with your spouse.

Never you neglect those first signs because they are the tools that will give you a beautiful ending with your partner in future.

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