Cross your limit.

For some time now I have been so cold with finding a topic to write and stories to share because there are alot of challenges, situations and programs that popped up in my life of recent, and it has taken a lot of my time to settle down and think of what topic to write down, I sincerely apologize to you my readers for my short comings.

I have actually tried so many stuffs of late to see if I can get my self improved with the way I do things, with the way I relate and communicate with people. I noticed I have been so slow and repeating same method of lifestyle, same routine each passing day with getting same result at the end of the day without having any improvement or increase towards my expectations.

It's not that I do not think, do some researches and ask some questions about the task I want to do each day, in short, I have people I always share my ideas with so I can get their own opinions so that I can make a concrete decision that will yield better result at the end of the task, yet after all these steps, I end up getting same result and not having new result to add to the previous results I have been getting.

Now, having given myself a personal soul search and thought over what has been happening of late in my life, I decided to change my method of doing things and my plans as well.

CHANGE
You know one thing that is so constant in life is change and if you have failed to recognise that in time, you will end up running round in circle all through your life time. You may be getting answers and results when you try a task, but you may not actually get that perfect result that you are expecting considering the effort you are putting towards that task. After I realised that "change" is needed for me to apply in order to make a difference in my life, I went down to devise another means that will help and aid me in achieving a better result in my task.

Because I needed to cross my limit in what I have been receiving as result in the past. I had to change the circle of friends I was with.

CHANGE THE CIRCLE OF FRIENDS
I noticed that the type of friends I was with then was actually not giving me the type of assistance and help I was looking for, In as much as I was getting a particular result at the end of the day, I was not getting to that level of satisfaction I was hoping for, and If I continue to be in that circle, I will be getting result no doubt but I will not make a head way to achieve that desired goal and success I was looking for. So I decided to pull myself away from them gradually without them understanding it and feeling hurt that I left them to make new friends that can help me achieve that dreams I have wished to achieve. Remember that it's always good that you follow people that's are better and greater than you in life so you can learn more better from them.

By so doing, I had to relocate from where I was to another place to try other opportunities.

RELOCATION IS NECESSARY

You already know one thing that will make you change your circle of friends so quickly is when you relocate from where you were staying before with them to another city or country. So in order for me to cross my limit to achieve that desired success I have in mind, I made sure I left where I was and fix myself to a place that will surely help me get access to things that will get me closer to success I have always dreamt for. Yes when you are not getting what you are looking for, it's always good that you try your best to make a further step forward to see if you can step into that place that will get you what you are looking for.

After I relocated, I decided to give myself a new chance to try again and even explore more with the new opportunities, new environment, and people I have come in contact with in the new place I found myself.

GIVE YOURSELF A NEW CHANCE TO TRY AGAIN.
You know one special thing about relocation to a new place, you have to meet new people, new environment, and new opportunities to give yourself an opportunity to explore all of these things. When you eventually see yourself in such place, you have to make use of it to your own advantage, good and success, retesting your abilities and adding new flavours and ingredients that can make your abilities and ideas stronger more to achieve greater things are what you will surely grab from this new place you have seen yourself, and when you are grabbing the opportunity, you are already giving yourself a new chance to try and make a new difference this time.

Finally when you have given yourself a new chance to try, you also have to strongly believe in yourself and the decision you have made for yourself to achieve success at the end of it all.

BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

You know that success does not just come if you don't believe and be convinced in yourself that you are going to make it whether rain or come sunshine. As you have given yourself that new opportunity to try, you have to believe in yourself totally that you are going to come out successfully at the end of the day and that is the spirit that will always push you to succeed in your endeavours.

In conclusion, limiting yourself to greatness and success is one thing that will tie a man to an everlasting regret and pain, but if you do your best to overcome your limits and cross over to that place your heart always hope for, definitely you will surely be satisfied and fulfilled at the end. Don't limit yourself today my friend!

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