It's obvious that most of us have left their challenges and fight to start going for other person's battle and even to the extent of putting their energy, time and all their resources to fight wrong battle meant for another.
You might be wondering what type of battle I may be referring to in this context. This battle may come in different forms such as;
Finance
Marriage
Family issues
Emotional challenge
Anger issues
Personal growth
Depression
Religious belief and faith
Peer pressure
Personal confidence
Unstable relationship, etc
All of these mentioned above and many others that are not listed out are the battles we always face so long as we exist as humans. And it's very sad to see some people not being able to discover their own battle and face it squarely in life, rather they prefer to face another person's issues and thereby causing more harm than good to themselves.
I will discuss in detail these battles and why it's important that one should do his or her best to channel his energy, time and all he or she has to identify his own battle and work towards fighting it to success.
FINANCE
This is one part of life battle every person is faced with, the challenges of making wealth and finding means to make money and be comfortable in life. Most people have really lost focus of this course because they believed that the easiest way to make money is by praying and hoping that manner will fall from heaven in form of money for them and because of that they lose focus to hustle for the money and channel their energy to prayer houses all the hours of the day. Some even try to focus on the entitlement mentality towards their families and friends, these set of peoole see it as their right that you should give them finance to stand in business or do another thing in life just because you are their brother or their friend who have made it in life and so, they don't need to strive to fight that battle of making money by themselves. This is a very negative understanding of life and one should remove their mind from such believe and always try to focus on that battle of making money and going out to hustle to become financially stable of okay in the society which they belong to.
MARRIAGE
Most people in life have this desire to get married to that special woman in their life, but because they have failed to put down plans and go for those things that will help them achieve their desire of marriage, they end up missing that person they so much desire in life as life partner in marriage. Why not make effort to do those things that will give you access to be with that person your heart desires, by so doing you are already fighting your own battle which you must win in order to have your heart desire achieved.
FAMILY ISSUES
Having a family is not just an easy thing and providing for your family as well. There are challenges that faces a family which need a lot of attentions to solve immediate problems in the family by the people that make up the family. When such persons are channeling their energy to things that will not unite the family as one and living the problems to get to the root of that foundation which holds the family and eventually collapses the family, it's then said that the family is a failed one. It's always good for everyone involved to fight that battle that is challenging the unity of their families and focus on it in order to put an end to the problems affecting the family.
EMOTIONAL CHALLENGE
Yes often time we are faced with the problems of emotional and mental challenges we get either from our loved ones or from the activities of the day, instead of focusing on the way to handle and confront that battle facing us, rather we allow that problem to overwhelm us and make us fall out with our loved ones in quarrel and even prevent us from having a good feeling and desire to pull through in that daily activity we pass through each passing day. Why not stay focused and find that problem as a personal battle and fight it with all your energy to conquer so as to have beautiful relationship with your spouse and good relationships with people you may meet in your daily activities.
ANGER ISSUES
This particular problem have really pushed so many individuals into an unending regrets in their lives. Most individuals have temperament issues and instead of them to see it as a challenge and deal with it, they turn their eyes away from it and try to put blame on the next person as their reason for being angry all the time. If you are having such case, it best advised that you face your battle and find a way to stop it before it's too late.
PERSONAL GROWTH
The process of personal growth and mental advancement in an individual is not an easy process to follow. There are lots of distractions and challenges that may hinder such process, but having the idea that the process is not an easy one and seeing those challenges as a battle one must face to conquer in order to attain that height of success growth is what one has to channel his energy to in life. It's important that you do all you can to achieve this success of growing to a successful person in life.
DEPRESSION
Depression as a serious problem to the society. This challenging issue have really faced most people in the society and it's important that people that are faced with this particular problem are adviced to focus on this battle facing them, finding a final solution to this particular issue in order not to allow themselves been swallowed by this problem to the level of taking their lives by themselves. It is your battle to fight, please fight and win.
RELIGIOUS BELIEF AND FAITH
Some persons may be having issues of what to believe in and their level of faith in God so shaking, Instead of trying to focus and build their faith and belief in what they pray to as their God in their various religion, they go about trying to put more confusion to themselves by jumping from one Religion to another all in search of what I do not know. Why not try and face your battle today which is simply building your faith in that religion you are already in as a worshipper. By so doing you are already facing your own battle.
PEER PRESSURE
A lot of young people most especially the youth have really misunderstood their God given talents and strengths to acquire knowledge fast. Some have lost focus because of the pressure that comes from within their peer groups even from outside their groups. The challenges that comes with the peer pressure is an overwhelming one and should not be taken for granted. In order to overcome, one is advised not to look at the energy that comes from this negative forces but should always stay focused and try to build him or herself with the positive energies of life, because in doing so, you are already fighting and defeating that battle facing you as a youth in your society.
PERSONAL CONFIDENCE
This is the most challenging factor most people if not everybody in the society may have come across during one stage of their life as they grow. This is a self training stage which requires all the necessary energy for one to hold unto in order to become a better confident individual in the society where he or she belong to. This is a personal battle and one should do all within his or her reach to fight to finish and come out victorious. Most people have really lost their leading compass and focused on building a different thing that will not take them to that level they have longed for in their personal lives as individuals.
UNSTABLE RELATIONSHIP
At this point, most relationships have been on the verge of collapse, breakup and divorce due to unattended and overlooked issues and situations that needed to be attended to. Most couples that have this particular issues supposed to put all arsenal together and work towards finding a lasting solution to the problems in their relationship, it's not out of place for one to see this issues as a battle that needs to be won. Staying focused and searching for the best way to make amends to those things that causes problems between you and your spouse is the best step to follow in order to have a peaceful and lasting relationship between the two of you.
IN CONCLUSION
The best way to go about this particular challenges have been explained in this context and it is very important for one to look down and search for those things that confronts him or her as a challenge in life and do all within his or her power to stay focused to win the battle when they come visiting them.
Always choose your own battle and make sure you win them and never drop it on the way because when you do, you have lost everything.
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